Please Join me!!!!!

You welcome buddy, we are stronger with you.

 

Thanks bro.

 

I am with ya!

 

Okay well I relapsed yesterday (so ironic that I relapsed on Pascha), but I resisted today. However I did play a sex flash game online and had a really close call, but I don't think the flash game counts because I just really wanted to know the ending and didn't really look at any of the sex parts... But anyway I thought I'd post this thing that I'm doing. I have it on my notes app and it's basically there as a tool so that I don't completely give up and indulge for days after I relapse. I'll post mine and you people can make your own if you want to try.

Rules:
- If you fail an already completed "regularly" goal, you de-complete your last "regularly" goal.

Tips:
- If you want to or did do it, do 20 bed push ups and 20 squats.
- Any time you want to do it write 100 words in the living room.
- Little treat every time you resist up to once a day. (Like a small handful of chocolate chips)

Last relapse: May 1

FIRST GOAL: avoid relapsing EVERY other day. 2 weeks to complete. {Finish: May 14)
NEXT GOAL: at least once per week, get to day 3 while making sure to not go below a day 2. 3 weeks to complete
NEXT GOAL: Regularly make it to the third day. 3 weeks
NEXT GOAL: get over the third day.
NEXT GOAL: Regularly fourth day. 4 weeks
NEXT GOAL: 1 week (buy yourself some ice cream)
NEXT GOAL: regularly fifth day. 4 weeks.
NEXT GOAL: 2 weeks
NEXT GOAL: regularly sixth day. 5 weeks.
NEXT GOAL: 3 weeks
NEXT GOAL: no more than one per week. 5 weeks.
NEXT GOAL: 1 month.

REWARD: green day rock band, all four instruments.

NEXT GOAL: regularly 2+ weeks
NEXT GOAL: 2 months regularly 4+ weeks
NEXT GOAL: 3 months, regularly 1+ month

REWARD: Gaming computer

NEXT GOAL: 4 months: regularly 6+ weeks
NEXT GOAL: 6 months, regularly 10+ weeks
NEXT GOAL: 8 months, regularly 3+ months
NEXT GOAL: 10 months, regularly 4+ months
NEXT GOAL: 1 year, regularly 6+ months

REWARD: to be decided

NEXT GOAL: 2 years, regularly 1+ year
NEXT GOAL: 3 years, regularly 2+ years
NEXT GOAL: 5 years, regularly 3+ years
NEXT GOAL: 10 years, regularly 5+ years
NEXT GOAL: 15 years, regularly 7+ years
NEXT GOAL: 20 years, regularly 10+ years

REWARD: A cruise (unless you totally can't afford it...)

NEXT GOAL: full recovery. Reward: full recovery

It's not really refined yet as I only made it on Sunday so feel free to change it all you want!

PS I am hoping that I can afford the last reward but it can change... Lol

 

Keep it together

 

Day

 

Day 37. I was preparing myself and in the preparation my enemies attacked me . I was for a moment completely lost but soon I regain my original self and it was a fight of moments . so yeah I killed it again. The more I fight the more I become stronger ,tougher and experienced . Fighting is the key to freedom . Keep fighting . Starve the cells to death . Don't let them feed on you .

 

I'm in too. NoFap Army! we are brothers and sisters in arms against the porn giants, abstain from porn, free your self and lets take these bastards down! together we cannot be stopped! purple haze you can count me in for support! I also want to be in the Army.

 

Today's the first time in 2 weeks I've strode straight under the cold shower jets, straight out of bed, rather than faffing about getting my feet wet, then hands, then head etc. Fortitude gets easier.

 

I am in. Two days and I will hit fifty. And today, for the first time ever in my life, I came from a blowjob. I thought it was impossible but it was just porn and wanking that had damaged me.

 

Great to hear all this fantastic news

Keep it up fellows

Day 52 for me

 

Day 4 has just begun... it's late on Day/Night 3, having trouble sleeping... getting urges to M... gonna distract myself now with some study or TV

 

Relapsed today. Am starting over again. Am not giving up.

 

Hey SomeHuman, I like your plan! It is a good plan, a really good plan!
Just make sure you stick to it. Even if you get stuck at some point, if you keep this plan up it will help you, man.
As for your "tips" [20 bed push ups and 20 squats / write 100 words in the living room] use them! The best would be to make a stick note somewhere you can see it. Urges can be a true pain in the ass, but sometimes it's enough to just remind oneself on simple techniques (don't think I'm good at this, I know it from failing )

A cruise is a good long-term reward/goal. Why not a boat? You're 16, right? Well maybe it's enough to plan 10 years just saying...
Imagine the things you want to achieve, connect those fantasies to hard labour... maybe you know such techniques?
Anyhow getting rid of porn(-addiction) can be a life-changer. It is in my case. I wish you good luck and much success with training and strengthen your willpower. Again, it's a damn good plan and I would recommend it to others as well.

 

I'm with you. Please feel free to follow my journal brother.

 

Sadly Relapsed today too. we can do it guys I believe in every single one of you. WE WILL BEAT THIS ADDICTION.

 

Great stuff from an awesome group of men! We got this. Continue on no matter if it's day 1 or 100. Some will get there quicker than others. No problem. Those guys will have all the beers ice cold when we cross the finish line!

 

Amazing Job Dear Fellows

Days 53

 

This one is the best thing I have read ever on any site. You have just collected all the reasons at single place. Hats off to you man!!!

 

Thanks so much! Glad you like it

I tried to do something similar as a community project in order to gather a quick list of reasons at one place. If you'd like to check it out and give me any feedback that'd be great ^^

http://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/reasons-to-abstain-from-porn.65608/