Getting a girl to cheat on her bf of 3 years for me

Triggers or not, there are some seriously rapey vibes on this thread. I think you should really question your morals if you're hell bent on making this girl cheat on her boyfriend just because you want to have sex with her. Why can't you just wait patiently like most people would, (and if she's happy with her boyfriend, you respect that and move on to someone else who'll give you the time of day)?

 

@Golgo 13 No. No advice. I'm with NoBrainer on this one. Making a girl cheat on her BF is not something I want to support. I really don't want to offend you, but really I gotta say this. You are acting like a selfish kid here. For the sake of her BF I'm hoping that she is more mature and responsible than that. Can't really wish you luck on this one.

I would argue tho that for a man strong moral principles are way more important than being alpha or even having a working penis. That being said, I realize that not everybody is living by same laws of integrity. So I don't judge. Well, I kinda am. It's hard not to. But what I mean is that I am not seeing myself better than you. Even tho it is an asshole thing you are planning to do, in my opinion. Hope you will reconsider.

 

Golgo if you changed option 2 a little so that you explain your feelings but don't come on to strong in that you assume she is instantly going to fall for you, it might work. The other 2 options are are slightly creepy approach lol.
One must never force a ladies hand yo. But you can at least express your feelings, see if you get the gold or get slammed lol.
Is the bf a dick? Or is he fairly nice guy? 3 years is a long time see and you never know, being 26 she might be thinking of marriage.

 

So I read this entire thread. Here's my advice. Ready for it?

Don't.

Imagine if you were her boyfriend. Would you be okay with letting some young kid mess with your girlfriend? Also, even if this plan works out, it doesn't have a happy ending because you will feel shameful and you will want more but she will ignore you because she has to return to her "real" boyfriend. You will end up feeling used and the relationship doesn't really go any further. You will be left wanting more, but she will probably be done with you.

I also hate to break it to you but you're not alpha or confident, I basically read this as being a desperate attempt to justify an action with no regard for what happens after. The mere act of saying that statement immediately showed the defense you have set up. I have the image in my mind that you are a desperate person in real life who pretends to be confident but stumbles most of the time because people who are actually confident approach you.



Then again, do whatever you want, I'm just another rebooter with a lot of time on his hands. My advice for if you do go through with this plan--> don't over think it and for the love of god do not use line 3. Don't use the word sweetie or cutie either. What is this middle school?

 

I'm also on the "DON'T" train

You may think you have become "a real alpha male" and like @DonDraper said, no you are not an alpha male. An alpha male is someone who is respected and what you are doing is anything but respectful.

 

@Golgo 13 One does not follow moral principles because of girls. Or to gain respect or admiration in society. If that's what you think you are missing the point. When you look in a mirror do you see a man you respect? A man that you are proud of? A man that is inspiration for others? That others look up to and want to be like? Somebody you would want your future kid to resemble? If yes then I guess keep doing what you are doing. I can tell you I don't, when I look at myself in a mirror. So I try to shape him. So after 30 years of time when I do look in a mirror I am content with what I have become. Girls come and go. But we have to live with ourselves 24/7, until the day we die.

Just a thought. Sorry if you did not get out of this threat what you wanted to. All the best to you mate!

 

"being the best" or "being alpha" doesn't necessarily mean having to sacrifice your morals in order to do so, being alpha and being selfish are two different things.

 

I assume you intend to pursue her (not peruse her). So, you had no intention of taking the recommendations of others on board. This thread was all about validation or permission from others to act disgracefully toward these two people. So, is this a black guy wins a trophy white woman scenario? Because I do not see any love for this woman in anything you said. I read this as mere infatuation on your part. The fact that you are going to ignore all this good advice above ^ is further evidence that, beyond horniness, you have no feelings toward this person whatsoever. You disappoint me greatly man!

 

Yeah, all I'm getting is that you need constant validation and self-reassurance to believe that you're an alpha male. Stop pretending to be one and stop viewing women as in need of a man so they can be saved. The way I see it, and believe me, she's going to shove you away and say, "um...maybe we should get food or something, and probably avoid you for a grand amount of time. In fact, her and her boyfriend will probably laugh about this later on."

If I'm wrong, and I really hope I'm wrong, reply to this thread and let us know how this goes. If I'm wrong, I take back everything I say. I mean you're still not alpha but you won't be pathetic in everyone's eyes.

 

I think he's actually right. Girls don't want a man with strong moral principles. Women do.

 

Well yeah. My advice was to move on and find a girl who wants to talk to you, wants to be with you, has the respect for you that you desire, instead of trying to find something that doesn't exist with this girl who's taken.

It is up to you whether you want to reply to this or not, seeing as you have 'closed' this thread, but this kind of behavior isn't exactly what I think of the definition of an 'alpha male'.

 

Hey bro. I understand how it must feel to get such a negative feedback. Well, you totally provoked it. It is not exactly about making a girl cheat for you, but it is all the other stuff that you write. Don't call yourself alpha male, because nobody does that. Anyway, I only want to comment on this thing with the girl:
All my life I wasn't really the guy who took the chances to have sex with girls. So now I am just filled with regret to some degree. For already a year I see that my hair is getting thinner. It is like my body is trying to say: "Your best time is over. Go find yourself a peaceful life and don't even bother becoming an alpha male-ish person."
I am in a relationship for over a year. And I am not satisfied with the here and now. I would totally cheat on my girl. Actually I did but only with a prostitute. I just try to fight my feelings of regret with primitive behaviour that I probably won't enjoy at the end. But sometimes it is better to do something than do nothing.

Means, if I were you I wouldn't even bother asking this kind of question in this forum, because I would know from the start what most of the people would answer. But if you really get a chance to get closer to her, just put it in. But only if you know what consequences this might have for you and others.

 

One of my heroes I found in my late teens was Greg Plitt. He was a word's top fitness model and athlete in wrestling. I wanted to have a body like his. And he got me motivated to work out. But I did not only idolized his body. I also was inspired by his character. A Navy SEAL. As fucking alpha as it can possibly get. I never had a father, he ran away when I was like 4 or something. And I didn't care about character and integrity for long time. Nobody to teach me that. Only in my late teens I kinda stumbled on that idea. And Greg was one of the catalysts for those practices. Nobody probably gives a crap but I'm just gonna link a quick video here of him talking about character anyways, in case somebody DO gives a crap:



I do realize that people don't care about some guy they don't know and can't relate to rambling on vlog. We usually don't tend to care about opinion of those who are nothing to us. But I just wanted to take this opportunity to share what and who inspired me. Maybe you will find him inspiring too. Take it or leave it.

Video I wanna link starts at 29:02, so just skip first 29 minutes. It's pretty damn low quality too. But it's about message an not pretty picture anyways. There are plenty of YouTube vids about this guy that are better quality.