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Delayed Ejaculation, Not PIED, Death Grip

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Amor, Apr 17, 2016.

  1. Amor

    Amor Fapstronaut

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    Really just curious if anyone else out there is in a similar boat or what you guys think.

    I hear many accounts of PIED however I firmly believe my DE is not related to porn but actually to my physical masturbatory habits.

    I've noticed 3 things.
    * I masturbate with alot of stimulation (more than sex can provide)...death grip
    * I hold my breath frequently when I masturbate
    * I stretch out "curl my toes" and create tension that way as well

    These three things I do not do when having normal sex and though I can maintain an erection for hours on end, I cannot ejaculate with a women.

    I noticed this issue when I lost my virginity, kinda crazy and was just smart enough to play it off well. Any thoughts? or anyone in the same boat and believes their DE (to any degree) is non-porn related?
     
  2. Ikindaknew

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    @Amor,
    You are right. You have a masturbation issue. You listed the issues well indeed, and its exactly what happens to deathgrippers...
     
  3. nicknz100

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    Yeah I can relate pretty much exactly to that. For sure is a lot to do with death grip, as I went a long time without touching it and just being M'd off by a chick for the first time after 20 days felt unreal after I got the sensitivity back! I typically would just get bored or have to get crazy to get off.

    I have done fitness test in relation to my grip strength and mine is extremely strong, which for sure is not gonna be able to be replicated so keeping the hands away definitely helps.
     
  4. Amor

    Amor Fapstronaut

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    Any idea if their is a consensus for recovering through training vs abstinence?
     
  5. Amor

    Amor Fapstronaut

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    @nicknz100 Nothing like a little intercourse to motivate the abstinence!
     
  6. nicknz100

    nicknz100 Fapstronaut

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    haha forreal, It actually has helped me a lot with motivation to not do it!
     
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  7. RedEd101

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    Hey man I can relate to this. Have you tried different positions during sex? My big breakthrough cam with my last gf, after I discovered I could cum nearly every time during doggy. Sometimes in other positions too (her on top grinding). Still took a long time though so I decided to start nofap just before new year.

    Stick with nofap and it will make a difference. It's difficult at first but after some months I no longer getvurges to watch porn. Not touching yourself is the hardest but worthwhile and gets easier once you realise nofap works..
     
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  8. Amor

    Amor Fapstronaut

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    @RedEd101 Hey mate glad to hear different positions worked for you. Nah my situation seems to be pretty extreme. On the flip side at least I seem to have a very healthy mental desire for sex but I find myself with women and unable to sleep because I can't get off and wouldn't dare to bat one out right then and there! Just by chance when would you be able to cum from her on top ONLY when she is facing away from you (reverse cowgirl)?
     
  9. RedEd101

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    No, the other way round with her sat facing me. Works best sat on a couch with feet on the floor, her sat on top grinding along the length of your shaft. It's the pressure that did it for me as I'm not v sensitive, like you.
     
  10. Pirlo23

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