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***The Kindness Challenge***

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by BushidoWarrior, Nov 17, 2015.

  1. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @Lemon23BR ~ And do not budge from that position of strength my friend. You are a champion. There is nothing you cannot do. SEIZE THE DAY!
    2. @RealLifeGamer ~ Yes you are. You are a beast. Keep at it. You are doing a fantastic job. WIN!
     
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    @timwillie73 ~ Welcome to the NoFap war comrade. Here you will find a very supportive, solidaristic group of people who will help you on your journey, myself included. The struggle is never easy, but it is absolutely worth it. You can do this!
     
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    1. @nachoman45 ~ You've got this my friend. You are doing a fantastic job. And I feel sure you will go on and continue to ascend to new heights you never thought possible. Dream, believe, achieve!
    2. @Lord of Cinders Gwyn ~ I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope it passes for you and you get back on your feet. Try not to be too hard on yourself. Sending you well wishes. Stay strong.
     
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    1. @Rising_Phoenix_Of_Hope! ~ You are a king. Savor your achievements. You have hit a milestone. I am sending you a fist bump from Australia. May each day onward be filled with success, prosperity and endless victory. WIN!
    2. @Kristen ~ You've got this. I believe in you. There is no such thing as failure IMO: merely discoveries of what doesn't work. We're by your side in this. United we stand, divided we fall. Carpe diem!
     
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    1. @pusher ~ You've accepted this challenge, which is the first and most major step. Keep going my friend...soon you shall feel the exhilaration of victory and the joy of becoming the new and improved version of yourself. CARPE DIEM!
    2. @Human Being ~ Keep going! Keep pushing! Never say die! Keep marching forward like the fucking Terminator! YOU'VE GOT THIS!
    3. @dpkm95 ~ Welcome to the NoFap war comrade. Here you will find a very supportive, solidaristic group of people. We're by your side the whole way. The fire of struggle will forge the new and improved you. You will become the person you always dreamed about. Now, let's go and do this!!!
     
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    Thank you for the words of encouragement and thank you for the challenge (this Thread). I accept this challenge too. I'm so happy to have found this website, this community, and to have learned about this problem. I hope to better myself, inform others of this issue, and to be a strong advocate in this arena.
     
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    1. @Cool Joey ~ Well done buddy! You're doing an awesome thing and you should be very proud. Keep going and never, ever ever stop! We're all by your side in this thing. Carpe diem.
    2. @Kev Cyberpunk ~ You are. You most certainly are. It is a road we all travel together. And we shall become better human beings for it. Here's to victory friend!
     
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    1. @Tristan Marr ~ Welcome to the NoFap war comrade. You have come to the right place. Here you will find a wonderful, supportive community who shares your struggle and will be right alongside you. Will it be easy? Probably not. Will it be worth it? ABSOLUTELY!
    2. @aaho ~ Don't worry. The urges will pass. The best way to combat any porn urges is to go outside. You can't relapse while you're outside! You've got this: I believe in you.
     
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    @BetterThanIKnow ~ I wish you the best and I'm thinking about you. You can do this!
     
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    1. @Kristen ~ You've got this. You are stronger than you realise.
    2. @Swizz ~ Best of luck! I know you can do it. It will be so worth it!
     
  11. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @Isac ~ I promise to stay away from PMO/MO/O today if you do. We can both do this if we put our minds to it. Deal?
    2. @Kristen ~ I hope you pulled through okay. Remember that the only thing standing between ourselves and who we want to be is the bullshit story we tell ourselves about why we can't be that person. Once we remove this bullshit story from our lives, we become unstoppable. You've got this!
    3. @Lord of Cinders Gwyn ~ Put an internet filter on your computer. Write about your feelings in your journal and try and figure out what is triggering your relapses. And most importantly... BELIEVE IN YOURSELF. You DO have the power to overcome. Crush the self-doubt in your mind and take your own side in this struggle. There's a world to win and I know that victory will be yours. You can do this. Rise, and begin again.
     
  12. BushidoWarrior

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    1. @Lord of Cinders Gwyn ~ Don't freak out. These are just statistical tendencies. Social science is not a hard science. Be the exception. See it as an opportunity to stand out and shine. And believe me when i say that YOU CAN FUCKING DO IT.
    2. @Kazzy ~ You're doing great. I hope to join you soon. Never give up and always remember why you started. I can see you making it all the way to the 90 day mark with flying colors! Well done!
    3. @AlexDoesntFap ~ And you shall overcome. Welcome to the NoFap war comrade. We are by your side this whole way. When we break free we do so together. WIN!
     
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    1. @Hully ~ Well done! You're climbing the mountain, one day at a time. Your hard work will pay off — I promise! Fist bump.
    2. @Never_Return_There ~ Ride the urges out. All they can do is be felt: that's it. Once you look your urges straight in the face and don't flinch, they have no power over you.
    3. @Rave360 ~ You've made a brilliant choice coming here friend. We are a very supportive community and will help you every step of the way. You've got this. Never give up and never surrender. You will win this thing and become a better person for it. CARPE DIEM!
     
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    1. @George96 ~ Fantastic! That's very good news and I'm happy for you. May you succeed with flying colors! I'm sure you will knock this Reboot out of the park now!
    2. @Iwannabeme ~ United we stand, divided we fall @Iwannabeme. We fapstronauts never quit; we fight our way to victory. Sometimes the climb will be gruelling, but never ever stop climbing comrade. NEVER SAY DIE!!
    3. @Gabe F ~ You've got this Gabe F! You're doing an awesome thing and you should be very proud of your commitment to this reboot! It's a big step, but you will find yourself. Through rebooting you will transform into the person you always wanted to be. TO VICTORY!
     
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    “You can always die. It's living that takes real courage." - Himura Kenshin
     
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    1. @rodos ~ Accept yourself as you are and everything you have been right up until this moment. This is your starting point. Once you have done that, believe me: you will achieve your dreams and transform into your Ideal Self. It's the great paradox: to change we must first be okay with who we are. You can do this; I believe in you.
    2. @oversexedsami ~ Welcome to the NoFap War comrade. Here you will find a very supportive community to help you every step of the way. It's a shared struggle; but a struggle we will all emerge victorious from, one way or another. You have made an excellent decision coming here and deciding to make this choice for yourself. I salute you and I know you can do this. Success will be yours friend. WIN!
    3. @betterhuman72 ~ Just remember the words of Winston Churchill: If you're going through hell, keep going. And don't forget: there are many fapstronauts going throughout the same struggle right alongside you. It helps to remember that you are not alone. I know you can do this. Believe in yourself and you can move mountains. You've got this!
     
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    1. @Bre_aking Free ~ And a better life will be yours friend. Your struggle is our struggle. The journey to liberate ourselves from PMO addiction is a shared journey. We suffer together, we endure together and we share our experiences. United we stand, divided we fall. YOU WILL WIN THIS THING!!!
    2. @BlueLacuna001 ~ YOU WILL WIN! You are stronger than you realise. Just remember: the struggles that you face today are building the inner resilience, the inner strength, the inner determination that your Future Self will thank you for down the road. You create your future, one minute at a time. Make the most of it comrade. CARPE DIEM!
     
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    Those were some really soothing words , thanks a lot my frnd
     
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    1. @Never_Return_There ~ Oh my gosh! CONGRATULATIONS!!! What an amazing and epic achievement! You must be so proud of yourself!
    2. @KitShicker ~ You've got this friend. Here's a couple of tricks for you to try: clench both your fists (studies show that can give you a short-term willpower boost), and take a moment to think about what your deepest-held values are, i.e. what really matters to you. Bringing your core values to mind is another self-control booster. I hope this helps.
    3. @Star owl ~ Welcome to the NoFap war comrade. We are by your side in this struggle. You have made a very wise choice. The decision to quit PMO is not a trivial one, and has large (and positive) implications for your life. Will it be easy? Probably not. But will it be worth it? HECK YEAH. So let's do it!!!
     
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