Looking for sombody to Reboot 30 days with, No P and No M

I'm in! Let's do thissss. I'm sick of relapsing. This forum is amazingly encouraging

 

So glad you didn't give in bro. It's genuinely nice to see others on here continuing to fight and not giving in, and building the streak

I'm at 2 weeks! It only gets easier from here. Keep it up guys

 

Hey just checking in.

Spent all day at an amusement park with my gf yesterday so wasn't able to check on here yesterday. Still going strong. Had a slight urge this morning but nothing too serious yet. Heading to the gym now to work that out of me for another day!

Good luck lads!

 

Yes it is a little strange... It is like my conscious mind is blocking it.
I dunno how it is to live with mental imagery (and sound and smell and sense BTW in my head) so i think u guys who have it are like mutants to me, superpowers!

 

10 days!! Good, my Personal Best is like 21 days so... I'm in my way to beat it!!!!

 

Just find out (with no intention) my fappening collection on utorrent downloads! ERASED IT imediatly! YES!

 

@Experien Right on, man.. I deleted my stash a couple months back and it felt so good not having all that crap anymore.

On a side note, i reached 15 days without pmo! hurray! Weird thing is that I haven't felt any major urges yet.. So I hope it remains this way.

Cheers! And be strong, fellas!

 

Good job guys!

I hit my initial goal of 7 days with no major urges yet.

Next goal 14 days in my sights! Onwards and upwards!

 

Who's here? A_Hopeful_Guy, Swift Nickel, Exonyte, Joseon2016, maske, m0cha, kobkob anybody I missed? It makes me so happy to see everyone (myself included) doing so much better than they could have imagined. I've been MIA for a little while but am alone this weekend which I know is a trigger time for me so going to check in here each day. Hope you are all well. regards and respect!

 

@stephanD good idea coming straight on here for support.

Stay strong, you can fight these urges for another day!

 

Needed to reset still it's been a good 14 days and I know I can make it that far and further. 90 still seems a long way off but I can now imagine doing 30. Watch yourself everyone, be smart.

 

@stephanD 14 days is still a good run!

Takes a strong man to reset and then pick himself up for the fight again! One time in 2 weeks is nothing to be ashamed of either so don't worry!

 

Ouch! @stephanD Had I seen your previous message I would have said something to encourage you. I'm doing good, and much of my progress I believe is because I'm not feeling any urges at all yet (Which I find very weird, since a month ago I could barely go a day or two without pmo), so I'm preparing for when this flatline goes away, and I know it will be hard. And because of that lack of urges I haven't checked much here lately, but I'm definitely going to be here at least once a day if any of you guys need someone to talk to.

I'd say that for you the best thing to do now is just try to reach another 14 days, (that you could also see as 28 days with only one misstep) instead of binging for a whole week for example. You're not back to square one, bud! Remember that.

And I agree with @Joseon2016 I'm proud that you actually came clean and said it. Sometimes I think that people tend not to show up here after they reset because they don't have the guts to say it openly. So get back on the horse and let's do this shit.

Cheers

 

I am wondering when does the flatline stage generally start and finish at?

 

I believe it changes from person to person, and also if it's the first time you're trying it out with nofap it will take longer to show up. Last year, on my first try, I never reached any kind of flatline. I ended up resetting on day 7 or 8, but until that, I felt urges daily.

This time I'm on day 20 and haven't felt the need to fap from day 2 or 3. But I also haven't seen the benefits of it yet, like feeling great, full of energy, etc. so there's that.

This post on ybop seems like a nice explanation of how the flatline works:
http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/i-quit-porn-but-my-potency-and-libido-are-decreasing-help

 

Sup guys! Just checking in! I just started week four! In less than 7 days I'll reach a freaking month pmo-free.. Never in my life I could've thought I would be able to make it. It seems like I was wrong.

Keep it up, everyone!

Cheers

 

Great job @maske !

I just completed 2 weeks 20mins ago. Haven't had any huge urges yet but which is making me a bit uneasy so I'm just taking it one day at a time. I've been keeping myself really busy these days which has helped.

 

@maske @Joseon2016 proud of you guys, you're doing great.

 

Bro... I am in..

Let's kick this horrible addiction.
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