My 13th Month clean: getting to adulthood

Congratulations for your successes and for becoming an adult!

 

Wow. These are great stories of overcoming fantasy like a boss. This is the most important thing as you say fantasy is delusion. Do you find you are able to make better decisions now than you use to? Can you see what is going on better and understand people better? I often think if i am going to fantasise about someone I might as well ask them out otherwise it is not real. Anyhow I don't want to ask anyone out so the fantasy has to go. Wonderful work for prioritising freeing the fantasy. I do the same thing with anger. I soon as I see I am frustrated I will clear it ahead of anything else that is going on. Staying happy is the number one.

 

13 months is Incredible. Keep going on. Lets make it 2 yrs.

Indeed, Loss of Semen brings Death & Gain of Semen brings more than just Life.
programee

 

Yea man, It's death. That is a saying from the Buthists.

 

Got a lisp, pal?

 

Taoists say ejaculations bring death faster too.

An Ayruvedic bit if I may since we happened upon the topic

"Abir,

It is called masturbation.

Of course, it is very bad for health. It makes you "dry, loose, skinny, weak, and impotent" day by day. I am a doctor. You will require nearly five minutes to read my detailed answer.

What the Traditional Medical Science Says
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According to the traditional medical science, a man should not do masturbation or sex before the age of 24 years. A woman should not do them before the age of 22 years. Later, sex may be done at intervals of 35 days or more than 35 days to prevent any adverse effects on the body. During these activities, many important minerals, hormones, and fluids responsible for the following are rapidly lost with semen.

[1] Masculinty ------------------------> masculine appearance and behaviour, body hair, body shine
[2] Growth of the body -------------> increase in height and weight
[3] Maintenance of the body -----> resistance to diseases, healing power
[4] Physical strength ---------------> density, stamina, tolerance
[5] Mental strength ------------------> fearlessness, self-confidence, positiveness


Semen - The Foundation of a Male Body
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Semen is the foundation of a male body. All other entities in a male body like bones, muscles, veins, and capillaries depend on semen for their growth, maintenance, and strength. If semen is frequently wasted, all the parts of the body are badly afffected. They become dry, loose, and weak. This is true of the genetal parts as well as of the other ones. The hormones responsible for masculinity and sexual capabilities are also present in the semen. Thus, with the loss of semen, these hormones are also lost.


Why You Should Give Up Masturbation
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You are making your body dry, loose, weak, and impotent just for pleasure. You eat. You masturbate. It is like "a tank getting filled through one pipe and getting empty through another pipe".....!

All the three-----masturbation, wet dreams, and sex-----are very harmful to health. A man's semen is his masculinity, energy, strength, and life. Each time semen is wasted, his masculinity, energy, strength, and life decrease. This is simple Mathematics.....!


How Semen is Formed
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Just as milk cream is the cream of milk, semen is the cream of the males' blood. It is very precious. Semen is created by the secretory glands from the food we eat. According to a book I have read, only about 20 g semen is produced from the food that a man consumes in nearly 35 days.

(1) From 32,000 g food, approximately 11,153 g chyle is formed.

(2) From 11,153 g chyle, approximately 3,887 g blood is formed.

(3) From 3,887 g blood, approximately 1,355 g flesh is formed.

(4) From 1,355 g flesh, approximately 472 g fat is formed.

(5) From 472 g fat, approximately 164 g bone is formed.

(6) From 164 g bone, approximately 57 g bone marrow is formed.

(7) From 57 g bone marrow, approximately 20 g semen is formed.


Where Semen is Located
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A common and huge misconception is that semen is located only in one part of the man's body, and that, after the man loses it due to wet dream, masturbation, or sex, it gets filled within the next few hours "automatically". This is completely wrong...!

Semen is located throughout the man's body, mixed with blood. A small proportion of this semen is located at one part at the centre of the body. After the man loses it due to one of the afore-mentioned reasons, the semen from the other parts of the body is brought to fill this part. As a result, the density of the blood, and so, the density of the body decreases, and the man looks a little less masculine than before. If such loss takes place frequently and over a long span of time, the man may become impotent. In some cases, the situation is so grave that the man looks like "an eunuch".


Relation between Semen and Testosterone
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Another huge misconception is that there is no relation between semen and testosterone. This is completely wrong...! Testosterone is mixed with the semen itself. Each time semen is lost, the testosterone mixed with that semen is lost too. Testosterone is very important for masculinity and sexual capabilities.


Effects of Frequent Semen Loss
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According to the traditional medical science, a human male should not do masturbation or sex before the age of 24 years at least. Later, he may do sex at intervals of 45 days or more than 45 days to prevent any adverse effects on the body. Otherwise, some or all of the following effects may occur:


Effects on the Skull Region
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-----drying, loosening, weakening, and falling of hair
-----mild or severe headache
-----pale face with anaemia
-----acne or eruptions on the face
-----dark circles around the eyes
-----sunken eyes
-----short-sightedness
-----incomplete beard


Effects on the Trunk Region
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-----pain in shoulders
-----palpitation of the heart
-----dyspnea - difficulty in breathing
-----back pain
-----stomach pain
-----gradual degradation of kidneys


Effects on the Genetal Parts
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-----wet dreams or nocturnal emissions
-----incontinence
-----discharge of semen with urine
-----premature ejaculation (only 5-10 minutes instead of the normal 35-40 minutes)
-----enlargement of the testicles
-----pain in the testicles
-----involuntary urination in sleep


Effects on the Legs Region
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-----pain in thighs
-----pain in knees
-----pain in ankles
-----foot pain
-----palpitation of legs


Effects on the Whole Body
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-----phthisis - wasting of tissues
-----boils on the body
-----early exhaustion
-----physical and mental lethargy - lack of energy


Other effects
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-----physical, mental, and moral debility
-----mental imbalance
-----sudden anger
-----sudden irritation
-----drowsiness
-----laziness
-----gloominess
-----loss of memory
-----fickle-mindedness
-----lack of thinking power
-----bad dreams
-----restlessness of mind
-----sudden jealousy
-----sudden fear
-----lack of masculinity
-----effiminate or womanish behaviour


In short, just dreary, cheerless existence...


I hope you have realized that you have to preserve your semen. Hence, give up the habit of masturbation FOREVER.

PRESERVE SEMEN..... PRESERVE MASCULINITY.
PRESERVE SEMEN..... PRESERVE ENERGY.
PRESERVE SEMEN..... PRESERVE STRENGTH.
PRESERVE SEMEN..... PRESERVE LIFE."

 

Ah hell while we're at it why not throw in an excerpt from the Brahmacharya guide,

6. THE VALUE OF SEMEN
My dear brothers! The vital energy, the Veerya that supports your life, which is the Prana of Pranas, which shines in your sparkling eyes, which beams in your shining cheeks, is a great treasure for you. Remember this point well. Veerya is the quintessence of blood. One drop of semen is manufactured out of forty drops of blood. Mark here how valuable this fluid is!

A tree draws the essence or Rasa from the earth. This essence is circulated throughout the tree, its twigs, branches, leaves, flowers and fruits. The shining colours and life in the leaves, flowers and fruits are due to this Rasa. Similarly, the Veerya that is manufactured by the cells of the testes out of blood gives colour and vitality to the human body and its different organs.

According to Ayurveda, semen is the last Dhatu that is formed out of food. Out of food is manufactured chyle. Out of chyle comes blood. Out of blood comes flesh. Out of flesh comes fat. Out of fat comes bone. Out of bone comes marrow. Out of marrow comes semen. These are the Sapta Dhatus or the seven Dhatus that support this life and body. Mark here how precious is semen! It is the last essence. It is the Essence of essences. The Veerya comes out of the very marrow that lies concealed inside the bones.

There are three divisions in each Dhatu. Semen nourishes the physical body, the heart and the intellect. Only that man who uses the physical body, the heart and the intellect can have perfect Brahmacharya. A wrestler who uses his physical body only, but keeps the intellect and the heart undeveloped, cannot expect to have full Brahmacharya. He can have Brahmacharya of the body only, but not of the mind and the heart. The semen that belongs to the heart and the mind will certainly flow out. If an aspirant does only Japa and meditation, if he does not develop the heart, and if he does not practice physical exercise, he will have only mental Brahmacharya. The portion of the semen, which goes to nourish the heart and the body, will flow out. But an advanced Yogi who dives deep in meditation will have full Brahmacharya even if he does not take physical exercise.

Semen is the quintessence of food or blood. One drop of semen in manufactured out of forty drops of blood according to modern medical science. According to Ayurveda, it is elaborated out of eighty drops of blood. The two testes or seeds that are located in the scrotal bag are called secretory glands. The cells of these testes have been endowed with the peculiar property of secreting semen from the blood. Just as bees collect honey in the honeycomb drop by drop, so also, the cells of the testes collect semen drop by drop from the blood. Then this fluid is taken by the two ducts or tubes to the vesiculae seminalis. Under excitement, it is thrown out by special ducts, called ejaculatory ducts, into the urethra where it is mixed with the prostatic juice.

Semen is found in a subtle state in all the cells of the body. Just as sugar is all-pervading in the sugar-cane, butter in milk, so also, semen is pervading the whole body. Just as the butter milk is thin after the butter is removed, so also, semen is thinned by its wastage. The more the wastage of semen the more is the weakness. In the Yoga Sastras it is said:

Maranam Bindu Patanat,
Jivanam Bindu Rakshanat.

Falling of semen brings death; preservation of semen gives life. Semen is the real vitality in men. It is the hidden treasure in man. It imparts Brahma-Tejas to the face and strength to the intellect.