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How to talk/flirt with extreme liberal women?

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by TrueHuman, Jun 12, 2016.

  1. TrueHuman

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    *This post is NOT meant to be misogynistic or generalize liberal women in any way*

    Someone on NoFap said...

    'I'm from Germany and it's pretty bad. Most boys have given up on dating.
    Extreme liberalism is present and it has become hard for white men to find well paying jobs, so impressing women with money is a dying strategy because they have the good jobs anyway.
    Most girls have daddy issues because German society is very hierarchal and reputation is everything so by default most family men are seen as "losers".
    Thus they have bad morals and are very rude to men. Sometimes even looking at them makes them make a scene. Sometimes even not looking at them makes them make a scene.
    The girls tend to have short term relationships with under average men that can be exploited easily and one night stands with high status men.
    There are a few functioning couples but only if the woman has the right attitude and chooses the rightpartner. The belief that a man has to be something special to makewomen like him is pushed really hard but the reality is it is the woman's responsibility. And they don't really live up to it. Just telling how it is."

    Now I'm from the USA but I couldn't agree more with this statement. Modern liberal women are difficult to talk to IMO. Now I'm not religious or against the sexual revolution but to me it's seems that extreme liberal women are very blunt and mean when it comes to guys hitting on them. They have double standards. On one hand they will look at you in a weird way if you don't hit on them (particularly if you're attractive) and on the other hand they'll act stuck up if you do hit on them. ["Sometimes even looking at them makes them make a scene. Sometimes even not looking at them makes them make a scene."]
    They act as if we are rapist (the TV network "lifetime" is extremely liberal1) and that we are only out for sex only. They accuse men of being sexist when they have preconceived notions of men and what they want. It's really pissing me off because before when I was in middle school I went through puberty and was supposed to be getting girls and kissing them. But instead I was bullied for my horniness. It affected me for years as I thought that it was wrong to hit on women. (something the "objectification" movement here on NoFap unfortunately reinforces...) Thus I didn't lose my virginity until I was 15 and I didn't talk to women in a sexual way that much until college. ["The belief that a man has to be something special to makewomen like him is pushed really hard but the reality is it is the woman's responsibility. And they don't really live up to it."]

    Extreme liberal women are frankly often mean and expect themselves to be pampered with complements; yet they want a man that doesn't complement them at all and in fact treats them on the borderline of shit.
    They dress very promiscuous yet get mad at guys when we give them complements on the streets.
    They complain about guys just wanting sex; yet sleep with alot of guys and get mad at guys for wanting sex while being dressed promiscuously. ["The girls tend to have short term relationships with under average men that can be exploited easily and one night stands with high status men."]
    This causes many guys to just give up an turn to porn.

    It seems like the only way to flirt with them is at a party/bar/club. You can't just hit on them in class or in the street etc.

    They just demand everything from men yet get mad at them for not letting them have enough independence.
    They get mad at not having enough equality yet don't work for it enough or put in the amount of work required for true equality.

    TL;DR - Extremely Liberal women are often (not always) very hypocritical and are very confusing to even talk to in regards to sexuality. They want casual sex yet they want a romantic relationship as well. Men are always wrong, shorting them out and just evil in general.

    How am I supposed to flirt with these types of women without going to jail or being shunned from society?

    *Once again this post is to give me advice not start a debate about who's right and who's wrong.
    If you can't post on this thread without causing drama please refrain from commenting at all.*

    FOR THE MODS: I don't believe this post is sexist or misogynistic in any way shape or form. It just realistically evaluates modern extreme liberal women (particularly feminist, third-wave femisim) and I believe it's an important issue to address. 2

    Sources
    1. https://www.newswithviews.com/Usher/david49.htm
    2. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third-wave_feminism
     
    Last edited: Jun 12, 2016
  2. Seems to me like a great motivation to steer far clear of them and stick to nofap. If it talks like a duck, and walks lika duck, well then you have your answer. If you stick your hand in the fire and ask if it will burn....
    Sorry to sound unhelpful but you're answering your own question. Better yourself on nofap and let a quality woman come to you when the time is right. This is the Age of Moral Degeneration. If you lack self control and seek crap, you'll get it. Good luck and wish you discrimination. YB.
     
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  3. TrueHuman

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    I don't wanna steer clear of them I just wanna know what to say and how the vibe is around them. I don't want a quality women I just want a sexy girl who will have sex with me.
    "Quality women" are too much work.
     
  4. Fair enough buddy. Sorry I can't be of much help. There's a lot on PUA sites- some of it is free. Good luck! YB.
     
  5. TrueHuman

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    I don't need PUA. I know how to get girls it's just liberal women are sorta "stuck up/hypocritical" sometimes. It's like they know all the tricks in the book which country girls, conservative girls, southern girls, etc. lack.

    How do I get around their barrier? Wht do liberal women like to talk about.
     
  6. himmelstoss

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    Avoiding women with unnatural hair colors and steering the subject away from politics seems to be working for me.
     
  7. TrueHuman

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    Unfortunately I live in the most liberal state in America ... Maryland. A.k.a liberaltopia .
    So they're unavoidable. Please help, I want to get laid lol. Haven't had sex in 2 years
     
  8. himmelstoss

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    I'm in Portland, I thought that was liberaltopia
     
  9. RealLifeGamer

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    Well why pick up girls with severe mental issues? You are asking to burn your fingers.

    what cant be changed is ought to be ignored
     
  10. TrueHuman

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    Lol you hit the spot I guess I gatta accept that some girls are simply very crazy.

    But seriously even if I'm not going to flirt with them sometimes it's hard just to even talk with them. As idk they just seem like difficult to talk to without giving me a chance. Like they're all Lesbos or something, yet on the other hand they do want and even expect me to talk with them.

    It seems like they want one of those "gay but not gay" guys. You all know what I'm talking about. Those guys who are skinny as hell and talk like they're gay (no offense to gays but you guys know what I'm talking about). And they think men with real desire like me are "potential rapist" LMFAO

    They're kinda hypocritical which I hate. Idk, I guess not all of them are like this.
     
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  11. Ty-Niddy

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    The key to this is... you don't
     
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  12. I find that you have to be a man who doesn't get affected by her 'tantrums.'

    Don't play her game, it's just a facade. Behind it all, is an insecure little girl. If you can show that girl true power (total confidence in yourself), and the ability to lead, you should be fine.

    However, sometimes their insecurity arises and they get freaked out too and leave you. So there's nothing you can really do, it's their own problem, but, you do have to master yourself and become a true man on his purpose, not bitching and complaining.
     
  13. TheIdealMan

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    Don't flirt, just talk and get to know (for now).
     
  14. RealLifeGamer

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    True human the trick is to just not take what The take serious. Don't be impolite to them but also don't assume their mental facilities are working In a normal way.
     
  15. himmelstoss

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    Ok after another date with a liberal woman i can confirm that they'll be happy to shut up about politics if they like you.
     
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