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A man's seed is his strength

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by mv8652, Jul 11, 2016.

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  1. Jul 11, 2016 #1
    mv8652

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    As I approach nine months without porn, fap, or sex of any kind, I want to contribute this thought to the philosophy of what we do:

    A man's seed is (at least figuratively) his willpower, his confidence, his motivation, his peace of mind, his sense of masculinity, his respect from self and others, his self-improvement, his success, etc. Why would he rub all of that out the end of his penis and flush it down the toilet in exchange for a moment of pleasure followed by regret? Hold it inside and resorb it! I have learned that our minds and bodies can adapt to greatly reduced amounts of sexual gratification (including none), and still be just as happy, if not more so. The only reason that all men don't already know this is that we haven't tried it long enough.
     
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  2. Jul 12, 2016 #2
    zadvanceppa

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    Agreed.
     
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  3. Jul 12, 2016 #3
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    even with finding and keeping a quality friendship, or marrage with a loved one, and to have a family, what better resone to NoFap!!!!!
     
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  4. Jul 12, 2016 #4
    mv8652

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    Flowing is correct, of course, about how difficult it is to stop fapping; but each man is ultimately in charge of his own body. Nobody holds us down and faps us! There is only one way to establish a fap-free lifestyle. The would-be non-fapper must first decide that he wants to stop fapping more than he wants to fap. Then, he must bite the bullet and stop looking at trash and rubbing himself for long enough for his willpower to accumulate and fuel the rest of his journey. This takes a drastic departure from the psychosexual comfort zone, and it requires as much extrinsic help and support as possible; but it can be done. It's one of the most awesome things a man can do, and it must be experienced to be believed.
     
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  5. Jul 12, 2016 #5
    will2power44

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    Have you read any of the ancient Taoist texts?
     
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  6. Jul 12, 2016 #6
    mv8652

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    No, I haven't read the texts themselves, but I've read about both tantric and Taoist sexuality for years. Through my long-term practice of no-PMO, I have realized how accurate some of those ideas are.
     
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  7. Jul 12, 2016 #7
    will2power44

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    Have you ever read Mantak Chia and the Taoist locking methods?
     
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  8. Jul 12, 2016 #8
    mv8652

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    Yes, but I prefer the avoidance of sexual functions rather than the obstruction of ejaculation during sexual functions.
     
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  9. Jul 12, 2016 #9
    classicalguitarmonk23

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    Saved sexual energy. Good for the soul.
     
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  10. Jul 12, 2016 #10
    FURPY

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    Good reading...yes yes..
     
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  11. Jul 16, 2016 #11
    Bem

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    I agree....like the philosophy...our sperm is life....if we are not sharing that with a partner....why waste it?
     
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  12. Jul 16, 2016 #12
    INSANE SMART WARRIOR

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    You are right....we must sop
     
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  13. Jul 16, 2016 #13
    INSANE SMART WARRIOR

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    Yesssss you are right don't waste energy just for few seconds pleasure.
     
    INSANE SMART WARRIOR, Jul 16, 2016
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  14. Jul 16, 2016 #14
    rationalemale

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    Does anyone do some body exercises for the flow of the sexual energy ?
     
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  15. Jul 16, 2016 #15
    iHappy

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    Looks like I can learn a lot from you :)
    I'll gonna check your previous posts, I already saw you wrote some great tips.

    Thank you
     
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  16. Jul 16, 2016 #16
    Black watch royals

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    This could not have been phrased better. Respect to you bro.
     
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  17. Jul 16, 2016 #17
    FURPY

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    Ok....I am counting the amount of semen that I save each day....oh...let's say one ounce per day for 32 days....that's 32 ounces so far....it has to go somewhere, or does your body quit producing it?...does this hurt anything....I know that cows have to be milked twice daily.....I'm sure that is totally different though...
     
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  18. Jul 16, 2016 #18
    seadoo54

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    All this sounds good , but when wake up or try to fall asleep its hell not to enjoy yourself if for a while , the reason we exist is due to sex , we're hardwired . Sometimes i wish i could go back to the age of 10 when all i cared about was baseball & swimming and riding my bike . Then puberty came along , i'll keep trying .
     
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  19. Jul 16, 2016 #19
    iHappy

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    It contains vitamins and minerals which your body absorb.
     
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  20. Jul 16, 2016 #20
    FURPY

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    Good good....it all has to be good....no down side to semen retention....mr happy is healing....must leave him alone...and I'm sure that mr happy is glad that I no longer try to strangle him and hurt him....he was not made for that kind of abuse...he wants to be in a nice warm place where he feels welcome and relaxed...I need to remember that...porn sucks...it teaches us all of the wrong things about sex...
     
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