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My girlfriend doesn't think giving up P will make me more sensitive..

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Time4Change88, Jul 14, 2016.

  1. Time4Change88

    Time4Change88 Fapstronaut

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    So I told my gf of my plan to give up P and M the other day and she told me 'I don't think quitting will make you more sensitive. You're a bit desensitized she to you being circumcised, not too much P'. I completely disagreed with her though and I'm adamant P is the reason! I bet nobody has came across this situation before :(
     
  2. AllanTheCowboy

    AllanTheCowboy Fapstronaut

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    That wasn't a nice thing to say, but sounds like the sort of thing that was said with zero intention of any kind. Just a thought that made its way out the mouth with no particular inspection or fanfare. From everything I've seen, read, and experienced, she is probably incorrect. I'm also circumcised, btw. Quit PMO for all the great reasons, and do it for yourself. She'll see the positive changes, and be happy with them, regardless of where she thinks they come from.
     
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  3. It doesn't matter what anyone says, mate. Do what you know is right for you.
     
  4. AllanTheCowboy

    AllanTheCowboy Fapstronaut

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    Caveat to that - when it's also the right thing to do. That phrase/philosophy can be warped into giving yourself permission to be selfish and greedy, which leads back down the dark road.
     
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  5. BrazillG

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    It really dont matter if you re going to be more sensitive. Im circuncised too, and when i dont M, the sex its a lot better. You enjoy more, conect more with your partner. This Will only do good for you man. I was circuncised when i was 18. Trust me, the sex isnt different. In matter of fact, i think its better now
     
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  6. Bartimaeus

    Bartimaeus Fapstronaut

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    Proof will be in the pudding. Just be patient. It'll get better if you stick with the reboot.
     
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  7. MsPants

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    She will be shocked when she notices the difference after a while through your reboot. Then she will see what was missing. Prove her wrong! For the both of you!
     
  8. FitGirlFuel

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    Speaking from experience with my boyfriend in this situation. Almost the same exact thing was happening with him before I found out about his addiction. After a lot of work...and I mean A LOT, anyone can tell you in here what you're giving up isn't easy, we don't have that problem anymore. It's PIED. Porn induced erectile disfunction. Since my boyfriend has been working on this, we have not had these issues. He stays erect during sex, when there were issues before, and he finishes better, harder, and faster (depending on what we are doing) giving up PMO will help you, I'm seriously going through what it sounds like yall are, only I'm a little further ahead. Good luck!
     
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