Seven months on Hard Mode + my tips

20 days in and all I wanna say is Alhamdullilah

 

Great tips and a great story. You truly are a nofap success story. Good luck with the full year. It seem you have the right mentality to achieve that magnificent goal.

 

Great tips really. I am going to copy them to mine journal and keep for easy access.

 

@mv8652 Thank you so much for your tips! It's very helpful. I liked what you said about relaxing with urges instead of fighting them.

 

Its all in the process, one brick everyday, will lead to a fully constructed structure over a span of few years. Thank you for sharing this message.

 

Inspiring ! Can you give us a little background on your life ? Are you a young man ? dating & marriage in your future ? You sound like grounded person ready for that step .

 

Your original post was exactly what I needed to read right now. You must be an amazing AP.

 

If you can go hard mode for 7 months,so can I.I have fully committed myself to go on hard mode from today.I will stay that way until I enter a relationship.Keep going bro,life is not only about sex,masturbation and porn.Life is about living.

 

I keep coming back to this. Such a great post.

 

Thanks for saying this. Actualls, this is the keynote. I quit because I want to get more out my life. I quit because I want to reach my goals. I quit because life feels so much better without fapping then with fapping.

During all my streaks, I always hold my goals above me like a lodestar. Quitting is really hard, it goes in a cycle, but I clearly feel that there is progress. Meanwhile, daily depressions and fears are gone. These are big steps I reached, and more will come. Therefore, never give up.

 

VERY GOOD READING

 

Great post, very inspirational.

 

Do you feel as though you are still progressing?....like, do you feel like you are stepping into a new realm, or something like that?...does you consciousness expand to higher levels?....do you see problems as something that can be solved easily? Am I full of questions?

 

Great tips, really happy for you man! Keep going and be alert always!!!

 

Yes, there is progress, clearly and definitively. For example, my biggest achievement is that I overcame depressions. It was with my for 25 years, but since one year, it is gone, and I 'm sure it is now finally a thing of the past.

Also, I'm progressing with PMO. However, this goes in episodes. You know - streaks of 2-5 weeks, but then a relapse - and so on. But there is progress, I'm much better in pursuing my own projects, much more relaxed and cooler. So there is progress. Just never give up. Be confident.

 

Good for you, Snow....it is an up hill climb to the top of your dreams....where is the top?...does it finally hit you?...I'm at the top, or does it become better with no end, until you reach the end of your life?...but the end is just the beginning....so to speak...your seed is life....it gives life...if you keep it inside you, do you feel it growing?....kind of like rebirth?....I ask because I am not sure where this is taking me...there is struggle at times where I lose faith in what I'm doing...

 

I really love this section on this site! Your words of advice really motivate me. I like the part when you say we need excitement. To me, we can keep the excitement alive by having a community supporting one same thing. Thanks!

 

This one "While momentarily straying off-course delays one's arrival at his destination, it doesn't send him back to his point of origin. "
Awesome. Truly motivational.