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Some insider info from the escort-girl.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by reboot_in_progress, Jul 14, 2016.

  1. reboot_in_progress

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    Lately I was curious to ask a real person(from the industry) who deal with guys almost every day. The question is obvious:
    "Do you meet a lot of guys who having troubels with erection?" (she is really hot by the way!)
    It's a real problem she says. Lots of guys aged 20-27 having this problem. And it's interesting that very few aged 35-40+ having ED with her.

    Porn kills.
     
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  2. Mr. Mind Right

    Mr. Mind Right Fapstronaut

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    Wow, which is why I'm on this journey, to avoid further embarrassment.
     
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  3. Antti Rytkönen

    Antti Rytkönen Fapstronaut

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    I have suspected this issue for a long time. P kills.
     
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  4. MrBigA

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    ...as someone who has been to see quite a few escorts, I can agree, there have been quite a few instances where It's just not worked. I never actually realised it was all porn induced untill recently.

    Weidly, i lost confidence in talking to girls because my chap hasn't worked quite properly for a few years now... and the fear of that stopped me talking to actual girls. This is what led me to go see escorts in the first place... I could handle that rejection, but completely missed having actual contact with a woman... it was actually an escort i visited earlier in the year who suggested it could be to do with whacking it too much lol So, i started looking in to it... ultimately leading me here on my current mission! :p

    (FTR i'm in the 35-40 catagory)
     
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  5. reboot_in_progress

    reboot_in_progress Fapstronaut

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    So how r u doing now?
     
  6. MrBigA

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    Well, I'm kind of just getting my head round this just now.... I won't know untill I have given it some time or untill have some kind of sexual contact with a girl t o know how it's working. Mentally, i'm kind of really positive. I feel like i have kind of figured out how to solve a problem.... I just have to give it a bit of time to see how it works out.
     
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  7. kriss93

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    What do you think guys, even excessive masturbation (without porn) can cause similar problems? (PIED,anxiety,depression,and etc...)
     
  8. Antti Rytkönen

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    Hard to say since I've been doing PM most of the time. But I guess that nowadays excessive M would be always accompanied by excessive P. For instance my problem is that even if I try to get rid of P doing M would eventually put me back to P as well. So in a sense of rebooting both alternatives may be dangerous. On the other hand, I think that excessive M by itself may be a sign of a mental disorder. IMHO.
     
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  9. kriss93

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    How old are you? I'm 23, so at my early teens in my country there wasn't internet in every house... (including our house). And I used to do excessive M daily, before I was enter in the porn world.
     
  10. Antti Rytkönen

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    I'm 27. Okay, well as I said my justification is based on my personal experience. I've been doing a lot of M without P too, but as I told it takes me eventually back to P nowadays which is quite frustrating :/ My M experience started without P though. So in that sense we have something in common.
     
  11. kriss93

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    Yepp. But I'm trying to ask that what do you think, even M experience (with excessive masturbation without P!!) can cause HOCD, anxiety,depression? I mean I remember I was depressed at the time when I was "just" M-ing without P, and I don't know that depression could be because of excessive M or other reason... :) I hope you got the point now
     
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  12. Antti Rytkönen

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    well, it may sound cliché but anything in excess amount is bad. And what's really bad in tuos habit is that you isolate yourself socially.
     
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  13. Excessive M can cause hormonal imbalances. It did cause me acne, migraines and mild insomnia. Same type of hormone imbalances can also cause depression and anxiety. And of course also contributing to it simply mentally, because your are not able to stop, feel shame, disappointment and so on, which can make you depressed and stressed. I feel this personally as well when I MO too often even without porn. Not only my acne and migraines tend to slowly go back but also depression. I think excessive MO is just as addictive and dangerous as P. It probably will not make you objectify woman, develop false, unhealthy perceptions of sex and all of that bad stuff what P does. But when it comes to how too much MO effects the brain, it's very much the same a P.
     
  14. HankyHank

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    Getting on and watching a male F.. a woman meanwhile you are on the role of Spectator Years and years, I think that YES it can make you weak and beta
     
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  15. kriss93

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    @HankyHank you got the point! I absolutely feel like a beta (and sometimes even a FEMALE :( ).... and I don't know it was because of porn, or what else.... what I know that I don't want to be a beta, I want to be an alphamale...but how can I earn it? (In my childhood I was confident and outgoing....and I was brave to fight with a man who is stronger than me, but now it is the opposite....) Should this "battleman" feeling come back automatically with abstaining from MO and P, or should I/we do something else to build it up again?
     
  16. Yugae

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    You regain this feeling during the time when you do what you really want to do. When your desires aren't followed without discernment. When you beat all your addictions (including old thoughts patterns, mental and emotional addictions) and you regain freedom.
     
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  17. kriss93

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    What else can I do to beat them (except abstaining from P and even M and O)? I mean I hate these feelings... and they're unwanted, but sexual arousal attached to them.... I can say and example:

    For example, when I see a girl's round ass, and I can see her thong's color(and/or shape), my head immediately "shocked" and my ass starting to "jizz".. (It imagines that it is ME who are wearing that thong, and it tells me that it gave me sexual arousal and happyness...)
    How can I "detach" these feelings if it is possible....I think it is hard wired in my brain...?
    but I don't want these feelings....(at least I hope I don't want them) I'm worrying every day that what if I'm a transgender...and there are times when I don't know who am I, but what I know I want (or I hope I want) a wife and a family, and live my life as a fully heterosexual man... but my mind telling me that it will never be possible and the only way to be happy is being a female or a sissy... but a real man inside me I know.... how can I embrace he?
     
  18. reboot_in_progress

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  19. kriss93

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    Then, sorry about that, but I'm glad to hear some answer(s) about that :)
     
  20. MrBigA

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    I'm pretty sure any form of excessive M will lead to ED. I think the point about P is that it is desensitising and dehumanising, not only to yourself but to the subject matter on screen itself... both being connected in duality can have terrible outcomes for your dick.... especially when consumed in excess.
     
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