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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Rocha, Aug 10, 2016.

  1. Aug 10, 2016 #1
    Rocha

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    Hello fellow fapstronauts,

    I have been having a problem i'd like to share. Through out my years of faping, I developed a network of girlfriends in skype, or so I like to think they are girls, with interests similar to my own. After I joined Nofap, I kept on with chating with these people because, after all, they were my friends also, and there are some realy nice persons there.

    But after relapsing because of conversations I was having there, I realised that it was making my concetration fail alongside with some other nasty consequences. So when I set off my new reboot program, i cut skype conversations too.

    The thing is, I miss some people from there. They are my friends, and I don't wanna miss contact with some of them. What should I do?

    Thanxs everyone
     
    Rocha, Aug 10, 2016
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  2. Aug 10, 2016 #2
    iHappy

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    @Rocha Block or delete those people and keep chatting with the people you want to stay in contact with.
     
    iHappy, Aug 10, 2016
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  3. Aug 10, 2016 #3
    Deleted Account

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    I had more or less the same problem. In the end I set up a new Skype account and sent messages to some of my contacts informing them of my new Skype ID and that I would be getting rid of the old one. Then I deleted the old Skype account (not nearly as straightforward as it should be, google it).

    This has improved the situation quite a lot in my case.
     
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  4. Aug 10, 2016 #4
    Oneness

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    If you've built this network of friends mainly to get you off then i would cut it out. If some of them are your friends then i don't see any reason why you can't speak to them. Friends help your plight.

    Was the conversation you were having with one of your friends or just a contact?
     
    Oneness, Aug 10, 2016
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  5. Aug 10, 2016 #5
    Rocha

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    I was thinking in something like that. Thx


     
    Rocha, Aug 10, 2016
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  6. Aug 10, 2016 #6
    Rocha

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    I think the best would be making a new skype.
     
    Rocha, Aug 10, 2016
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  7. Aug 10, 2016 #7
    Rocha

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    In the beginning they were contacts, but some of the relashionships evolved to friendship. And i've been chatting with some of them for years. It's really hard. But some are friends and are hot as fuck, what makes it difficult to decide what to do.
     
    Rocha, Aug 10, 2016
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  8. Aug 10, 2016 #8
    Oneness

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    Stay on the friend side of things with your interactions. Avoid sexual stimulation. If they are your friends they will understand.
     
    Oneness, Aug 10, 2016
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  9. Aug 10, 2016 #9
    Rommel1

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    If there is a way to explain them current situation it would be nice.I mean if you spended lot of time with them,you shouldnt have problem "opening" with them.But you know what is best for you,its all up to you :)
     
    Rommel1, Aug 10, 2016
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