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Extreme Sexual Frustration on Day 40

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by NoneForMeThanks, May 7, 2014.

  1. May 7, 2014 #1
    NoneForMeThanks

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    Howdy All,
    Im on day 40 Hard mode. And I have never felt so sexually attracted to women in my entire life.Honestly It feels like a brand new emotion/ sensation, considering Ive PMO'd since I was 13 all the way through puberty. But now I just feel so damn frustrated. I feel the desire to get with every woman I see, and I get so frustrated when I'm not... I'm not sure how to approach this new libido, should I be out trying to get with a lot of girls? Or should I just wait for a good one to come along? Or should I wait until ~day 60+ to start thinking about getting sexually active again? I'd love yalls feedback here, I'm struggling...
     
    NoneForMeThanks, May 7, 2014
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  2. May 7, 2014 #2
    Onaniking

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    At the end of the day it's all up to you. Do you wanna play the field and fish just to get laid or do want someone special. If you just want more experience with the opposite sex the former is the way to go I guess. If I were you I'd wait 60+ days if sex is only thing your looking for, from my experience you ain't missing much anyways just my 2 cents.
     
    Onaniking, May 7, 2014
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  3. May 7, 2014 #3
    Squeaky Soul

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    I'd wait until you meet someone special, like a spouse level woman. I feel that this might be the PMO monster trying to get you back to your old ways. Don't give in. Do you remember the writing exercise I taught you? If so, now would be a good time to write it...

    ~Squeaky Soul
     
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  4. May 7, 2014 #4
    Alexander_D

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    Women are the best.
    The longer I stick to this, the more my false version of women is stripped away - as sort of dirty, manipulative dolls to punish (lol) - and a true version is emerging more and more every day; something soft, warm, sweet, delicate, to protect and cherish..

    /cold shower
     
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  5. May 7, 2014 #5
    NoneForMeThanks

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    Thanks for all the feedback boys. Im starting to feel so confident, so I know I could pull in the tail. I think ill just start getting some numbers and seeing what happens? I just don't want to look back on this opportunity and say I wasted it. With all this confidence and sexual energy I think it would be silly not to_On the other hand, I dont want to drive myself crazy thinking about it constantly... I'm just going to be happy being me and see where that lands me! Stay Strong Fellas
     
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  6. May 7, 2014 #6
    Rafa

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    I'm also feeling a lot more attracted to women and this is really hard and I wonder how much long it will take for me to find the one because I find myself thinking about having a relationship a lot more and I crave to be with a girl, not for the sex because I wanna save myself for marriage but I wanna just be with someone that loves me and I wanna be loved too. I'm a bit sad about this...the last girl I was dating didn't show the same interest for me that I had for her so I dumped her and this makes things worst.
     
    Rafa, May 7, 2014
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