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my dad told me..

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by IggyIshness, Aug 14, 2016.

  1. IggyIshness

    IggyIshness Fapstronaut

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    so my dad caught me with porn or naked pics on google on my tablet and he told me dont go any past that.. or it will mess up ur brain for good. is this true? are you sure this porn and garbage wont scar my brain forever? im fucked up in the head!
     
  2. noviceambition

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    It won't scar you forever, but if you start at a younger age then it will be harder to recover from later on. Read here for more FAQs you might have about rebooting:

    http://yourbrainonporn.com/ask-us
     
  3. IggyIshness

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    ii started in the middle of 7th grade and ended at the middle of 8th grade (a year in a half) and been masturbating since around 6 years ols
     
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  4. recoome

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    i think the effects can be permanent, as in porn good wrecks the wiring of the brain. n with a badly wired brain, one may end up doing acts that one may regret for life.
     
  5. IggyIshness

    IggyIshness Fapstronaut

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    whats ur point
     
  6. noviceambition

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    Allow me to clarify my statement, if you start younger and have been doing it for a long time (several years), then it's tougher to reboot and it will take longer. If you've got a couple years in, there shouldn't be any permanent damage. There are people on here who have had this PMO addiction for a 10 years or more and have a greater struggle to recover from it with longer and more side effects than you. If that makes any sense.
     
  7. IggyIshness

    IggyIshness Fapstronaut

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    how about MO? i was mostly MO only porn for a year and a half. went on a 113 day reboot idk how do i know if i recovered
     
  8. noviceambition

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    Your goal needs to be clearly defined. Why are you doing NoFap? 90 Day Reboots are just numbers someone else thought of and others caught onto. Your recovery could take longer than that. By the way, if you decide to return to PMO after reboot, your benefits will be short lived and will not return unless you do another reboot or change your lifestyle to PMO less frequently or not at all. Everyone's body is different, so the number of days you have in reboot are just for the record. You should keep a journal to keep you updated on how you feel, to see how far you've come.
     
  9. IggyIshness

    IggyIshness Fapstronaut

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    yea n nofap is bullcrap. if another 130 daya doesnt work, im out of here im not going back to pmo but but im not doing a reboot
     
  10. recoome

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    my point is excessive pmo may lead to:
    sex addiction
    porn addiction
    visiting escorts n stuff which could land u in trouble(plus one may regret this act later)

    the pmo effects on the brain can be recovered but the acts done during addiction cannot be undone.
     
  11. IggyIshness

    IggyIshness Fapstronaut

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    what do u mean acts? so u saying im fucked forever?
     
  12. NO you are not who you are in the past. you are who you choose to be. You can fully recover and be a normal person. I believe it with all my heart. NoFap website wants us to be a better and normal person isn't it?
     
  13. recoome

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    ur not fucked forever. i ended up doing stupid things because i used to think about sex all the time. my laptop background photo was a porn nude image. i'm glad i wasnt caught. plus my sex cravings became more hardcore, like from soft porn to hardcore porn.
    i would watch bdsm porn and would have similar fantasies. dont have those thoughts now. i guess the intensity has reduced a lot.

    porn makes our mind betray us.
     
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  14. IggyIshness

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    im not watching porn anymore. what do u mean by acts? like jerking off? im pretty much recovered more or less
     
  15. recoome

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    well by acts i mean bdsm acts. i would get turned on only by bdsm porn, n thought i'd enjoy it. i'd masturbate to bdsm porn. even acted on it a few times n never enjoyed it. but couldnt stop myself. i wish i hadnt had those experiences.

    now i talk with some real life friends, listen to music, eat healthy food. when i was into pmo, i would miss out on this stuff.
     
  16. IggyIshness

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    whats bdsm?i domt have any friends look at the utuyoutube link
     

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