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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Blondejenn, May 1, 2016.

  1. Blondejenn

    Blondejenn Fapstronaut

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    Hi everyone. So introducing myself... this seems just a tad familiar... well im 33 yo single mom, active duty military, southern baptist... and im a sex addict. I watch porn but porn is not what brought me here. Casual sex and casual unsafe encounters, internet dating, and a slow downward spiral that sort of crashed at a few months ago brought me. here. After a weekend womens conference at church i heard God yelling the same thing i have heard in the past, if i want the husband i keep praying for, i need to be sober for a year... and that task is just uterly daunting and scary and lonely... so Hey lol I hope i can find some help here
     
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  2. Blondejenn

    Blondejenn Fapstronaut

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    Also, im looking for friends for Rtribe app and an accountability buddy
     
  3. Velu

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    Hi sex is the natural it is not the problem.. Sex is must... You are a single mom without sex it's difficult to face the life... Forgot religious and scriptures... All religions makes sex is guilt...
    Do whatever you feel with full hearted and conscious.. Don't feel guilt..
     
  4. yousuff

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    Do military barrack allow army personnel to watch P using their own Internet connection? I thought rules are very immense in military base.
    You can browse all the forums on this site to know NoFap well. Tonnes of posts are there. You also get help from it's member. Going church is okay if you get benefit from it. I don't use smartphone so no ways to use Rtribe app. Good Luck to your journey.
     
  5. Blondejenn

    Blondejenn Fapstronaut

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    Well im not army and don't live in barracks. And like i said, im not addicted to porn, going to church doesnt have much to do with my sex addiction, its part of my life and i like it
     
  6. Hey there...... You can also make an intro post or just copy paste what you typed above in the "Womens" Section.

    You'll find there a bunch of ladies to help you.

    Since you're into Church and stuff, @TakingTheSteps might help you a lot on this topic. I hope I haven't disturbed your already stuffed working on nofap lol @TakingTheSteps .

    My personal advice would be to stop worrying that much and do things which would make you feel really blissful and loved.There's no requirement to take stress.Have trust in existence and have the courage to do things which would make your life more cheerful.I'm very young compared to you,but it seems like Casual sex does more harm than good for you.
    Also,just a little more advice,be with someone who doesn't want only sex from you.People here have realized,relationships aren't based on sex only.It is only a part,and it should remain a part,not the Whole relationship.If it becomes the whole,then you are bound to be sick of it and part your way with your partner soon.

    All the best Madam. :)
     
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  7. Blondejenn

    Blondejenn Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for the info and encouragement. Ill look at that group
     
  8. Hello and welcome to NoFap, you can check some useful links in my signature to know more about the issue. While reading the title of your thread a song popped up in my mind:


    This song helps me a lot, your time is now!
    AVE
     
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  9. Jinx

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    I know this is an old post, but I just wanted to say I recently stumbled across RTribe, myself, and am looking for friends to add, on both the NoFap and SAA side of things. Hope you are doing well and staying strong!
     

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