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90 day challenge group: Anyone Can Join

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Dudekidmanguy, Aug 21, 2016.

  1. EzraTilian

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    I've found just getting out of bed can help immensely. Laying down and listlessly searching through the internet can cause me to fall into a trap in the mornings. Maybe think about working out or getting out of the house earlier in the mornings?
     
  2. Dudekidmanguy

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    Good luck to you too. Strive for more than 5 weeks.
     
  3. Dudekidmanguy

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    Day 6: no urges at all but I'm very nervous about what comes after this. I always relapse after a week.
     
  4. tbird

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    @Dudekidmanguy Don't be nervous. Embrace the challenge. Use the persistent boner as a means to meditate. It sounds stupid but it works. You have the ultimate power over your internal forces.
     
  5. Dudekidmanguy

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    Thanks man, this post stopped me from relapsing for the moment. Thanks so much for the motivation.
     
  6. Dudekidmanguy

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    Relapse: I felt many urges and brushed them away easily. But this time it was 2 HOURS I had to fight it. I've never made it past a week of being clean...just relapsed today, and I never realized how discouraging it is after you become so determined to quit. I was so motivated to go a whole 90 days without porn and I didn't make it past 7. I just need help getting back on track. I need help.
     
  7. tbird

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    My longest single struggle was 45 min. So 2 hours yeah that's tough. Restart right away.
     
  8. TheFatKid

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    Thanks man, I feel realy determined this time, and I'll try hard to stay clean.
     
  9. TheFatKid

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    Did you just MO or did PMO? If the pressure becomes emberable try to MO wihout porn. It can help on the long run.
     
  10. TheFatKid

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    BTW: Day 3 checked. No problem so far for me. But i can feel energy growing inside me already.
     
  11. Back to day zero again today with an MO. Mornings continue to be the worst time, so to combat this I'm going to take a page out of Nanowrimo; after my alarm goes off each morning I will have five minutes to get out of bed. If I don't get out in time or get back in, I will donate one dollar to a cause I do not support e.g., the Trump campaign.
     
  12. tbird

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    Work on a strict no touch policy during the reboot, except to pee and wash.
     
  13. CthuluHoop

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    Day one for me! I just found out about the website last night after a particularly rough day, and after staying up past when I was planning to go to bed reading all the info about porn addiction, I decided it was time for a change.

    November 26th is day 90, so here's to hoping I can make it! Good luck to everyone else as well!
     
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  14. Welcome! You're at the right place. We're all struggling, but we're all doing it together, and that's why we can make it.
     
  15. twinpeaksfan

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    Oh dear...I just lapsed on the 7th day. Need to get started again with the 90 day challenge. I just felt overwhelmed, that I needed to masturbate. At the time I couldn't see any alternative and wasn't thinking rationally. 7 days is a record for me but I'm not happy about my lapse this evening.
     
  16. twinpeaksfan

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    More positively, I hereby announce my new attempt at the 90 day challenge. Today is 29th August. And so I go again...
     
  17. Dudekidmanguy

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    I PMO..MO always leads to P.
     
  18. franco216

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    I guess I'm with you here on that 90-days challenge. This is all new to me. I'll take notes here and in my diary.
     
  19. franco216

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    Following this advice, I'll try the full thing. But I would be happy already, if I can manage without P alone.
     
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