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Niche porn hindering recovery

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Veritech, Aug 31, 2016.

  1. Veritech

    Veritech Fapstronaut

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    I have been able to beat straight porn, as the sight of a naked male and penis now disgusts me. I have not seen or enjoyed a "straight clip" in quite some time. From big tits to MILFS, I am no longer aroused. I find the up and down in and out repetitive and boring.

    But I keep relapsing with women having sex with women. This genre keeps expanding and continues to spark my curiosity and arousal.

    Lesbian porn is my biggest obstacle to my attempt at recovery.
     
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  2. I get it,it's hot to see two beautiful women kissing but the only way i stop porno(all porn) for 90 day or more just: do some form of keeping your busy or keep a journey of raw emotion like me that's advice i am not forcing you to do what i am doing, it's just a advice i giving
     
  3. Veritech

    Veritech Fapstronaut

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    All understanding and advice is appreciated.

    Thank you.
     
  4. BackToMyBestVersion

    BackToMyBestVersion New Fapstronaut

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    The progression is same for many of us! Its like A matryoshka doll ( if u dont know what it is: a Russian nesting doll, or Russian doll, is a set of wooden dolls of decreasing size placed one inside another). It srarts with softcore and lsbian and ends for many of us with ts Compliation! Then when we are rebooting its vice versa! So ur on the track mate. Same happened to me until 2 weeks ago I was still struggling with some p-sub without any MO but! After I made myself more aware of what im doing by writing journal and using NF companion App! And also makin myself so busy with work and exercise! Its all gone!
     
  5. Veritech

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    Another set back with this genre.

    I hear about women dating women in the media and I find myself looking for women having sex with women.
     
  6. Veritech

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    Any tips for kicking my attraction to this genre?

    All other genres appear to be the same. In and out, same positions, boring and too long. Penises are so ugly and creepy looking.

    But women with women to me appears so different and so tender. It's like what George said in Seinfeld, that lesbians are so fascinating because they don't need us men.

    It gives the impression that this genre is not dirty pornography and thus okay to watch.
     
  7. Attaboy

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    Well I wouldn't try and rationalize why you prefer it to other porn. Maybe ask yourself why you're curious about it? Where did this curiosity come from? Maybe deep down you actually don't have any real interest in this stuff, but rather since your brain is trying to stimulate dopamine production it triggers you to be curious about lesbian porn.

    Maybe view porn as dirty because it degrades human beings, instead of determining its dirtiness based solely on the physical aspects (ins and outs as you put it).
     
  8. LateSpring

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    Struggled this recently like you said it seems clean, more tender, gentle and loving. Yet, it's still P and they're getting paid to do it.
    This is a good way suggested to look at it and thank you Attaboy. Also, you can try to rationalize it as religious wrong, an affront against men with the raise of feminism or any other thing to keep yourself away from it even if you don't believe in those reasons(I don't believe any of these things myself but it stirs the emotions against it). Try to trick your brain even as it tricks you to think its okay to watch this. Mostly I'd say just look on it as any other type of P= a detriment to your life. An attack on your happiness.
     

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