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What a ball ache!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by nofappingpaul, May 7, 2014.

  1. nofappingpaul

    nofappingpaul Fapstronaut

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    So, day 4 and things have been reasonably plain sailing so far... I'd been cutting down my porn use and searching for/txting/sexting women. removing all possible sources of stimulation has really made things easier!

    However tonight I txt a girl I like and all of a sudden, no erection but I feel a little urge and bam... my balls hurt like crazy!!!!!

    That's normal right?! any tips??
     
  2. ozone20

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  3. nofappingpaul

    nofappingpaul Fapstronaut

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    nope...not even erect... just achy balls :/ im defo not used to this no orgasm business!

    Feeling mentally good for it though :)
     
  4. ozone20

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    It will pass keep going!

    Cut porn entirely!
     
  5. NoneForMeThanks

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    Dude,
    What are your goals for being on this site? If you are trying to see real results from the lifestyle this website promotes, you gotta cut out the porn entirely. The porn is the real enemy, not masturbation/ sex.

    Also, the blue balls come and go. Ive experienced them at all different times, sometimes random. Just push through it and your body will deal with it. STAY STRONG
     
  6. nofappingpaul

    nofappingpaul Fapstronaut

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    Hi Guys,

    Yeah porn is completely cut out.. id cut this out pretty much all together anyway is was more the "sexting" that was getting me off... the ball ache passed eventually and today has been much better.

    Im finding that if i think of it in the sense that I'm not denying myself something i want, rather im doing other things instead, it really helps!

    Im actually finding Im getting the time to do bits around the house, etc etc :)

    Day 5, has not been too bad :)
     
  7. nofappingpaul

    nofappingpaul Fapstronaut

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    also, because I've suffered from DE for a long long time... cutting out masturbation is also paramount because no woman can grip in the exact way i do.

    so I'm leaving well alone for a while!
     
  8. NoneForMeThanks

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    Good to hear my friend.
    Finding replacement activities for PMO is KEY to beating the addiction. Also, stay very involved on this website. i encourage you to comment on others posts frequently and perhaps think about joining a group! I wish you the best of success my friend
     
  9. nofappingpaul

    nofappingpaul Fapstronaut

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    Cheers dude!

    Day 6...My penis is feeling much more sensitive! got an erection while drinking my morning coffee, no urge to MO though - which felt really empowering :)
     
  10. NoneForMeThanks

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    Dude,
    I had that happen a lot during the first 15 days or so. Sometimes it would just rub on my pants and BAM haha. Just dont touch it dude, that will lead to bad things. Also, heads up for a lot of "ball aches". my spontaneous erections caused a lot of achy nuts. Just let them be, it will go away!
     
  11. Turtle

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    G'day guys, I had serious ball ache a few weeks ago so did some google research, I was mainly interested in knowing if it came with any negative health risks, prostate cancer ect... It doesn't seem to (I'm no doctor and I know extreme cases surgery can be an option) I stumbled across something that said it was due to some sort of swelling which results in some sort of blockage. I ended up getting a pack of frozen peas to stop the swelling and lying flat (as I thought it would improve circulation), the reverse American pie trick but kept my pants on. I also got some ice and melted it on my sack, it actually worked really well. Another time I was with my GF and had a bad case of ball ache, luckily it was a nice day so we went swimming in the river which was freezing cold, this also worked. I guess a cold shower would also do something similar, I'll try that next time.
     
  12. Flash

    Flash Fapstronaut

    Yes to the ball ache (days 3 and 4) and the spontaneous erections (from day 8).

    Can't say the aches were welcome, but the erections make me feel like I'm making progress and are a real demonstration of the progress I'm making towards my reset.

    More generally a feel a level of positive sexual energy throughout my day that previously I would have used masturbation to extinguish at the first opportunity. That's got to be a good thing, right?
     

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