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64 Days Doneeee :D

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by FappieChan, Sep 6, 2016.

  1. FappieChan

    FappieChan Fapstronaut

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    Today marks the 64th day I have gone without PMO. It was very difficult not to give in to temptation but I made it! Many times I wanted to give in but I was reminded by the failures to get it up that I had in my past relationship from a year ago and that fueled my abstinence from PMO. Now for the benefits! In general I am a happier person. My social skills have increased and conversation flows more naturally than before. I do have a much better confidence level, I can now start conversations and look people in the eyes while speaking. I recorded my voice on the last day I PMO'd on July 2nd, then recorded myself again today and there is a huge difference in the deepness of my voice! It's deeper and more profound. I sound exactly how a 21 year old man should sound. I have no problems falling asleep anymore but I do wake up still tired on some days even after a full nights rest. Lastly, I am getting a lot more attention from girls. Last week I was at the store and I caught this cute girl staring at me from behind the shelves. I said hello and went on about my shopping. Then in the checkout line she kept looking at me every few seconds and looking away when we made eye contact. This has happened many times since no PMO. I have been told I am a good looking athletic guy but its happening more frequently. My morning wood is starting to come back and physically I am more chiseled. I was always muscular but now the fat is falling off. The only things I haven't experienced are wet dreams but my dreams are more vivid now. My goal is to continue to 90 days and beyond. Life without PMO is great, keep pushing on fapstronauts!
     
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    NordicWarrior Fapstronaut

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  3. FappieChan

    FappieChan Fapstronaut

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    Thank you man! I'm excited to see what my progress will be at 90 days. That James Gatsby meme is great btw lol
     
  4. RetroMike

    RetroMike Fapstronaut

    Great job man! Keep at it and I wish you the best of luck on your 90 day journey!
     
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  5. FappieChan

    FappieChan Fapstronaut

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    Thank you bro! Good luck to you too, I have faith that we both can get there.
     
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  6. Iwannabeme

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    I have a few questions if you dont mind helping me gain some more insight into things.

    Are you experiencing flatlines?
    If so how do you handle them?

    And what helps keep you motivated to not give in after meeting your goal?

    I have made it to 30 days no pm but always seem to give in once i reach my goal. Im trying to get better at that

    Nice story! Very motivating! Ps nice pic!
     
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  7. FappieChan

    FappieChan Fapstronaut

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    No problem always willing to help bro, I am experiencing somewhat of a flatline. I find myself having low libido on some days but being more attracted to good conversation with a girl. The other day my libido was at zero as I was talking with a girl and she was so attractive but all I could focus on was what she was saying. I dont know if I'm explaining it clearly but all I remember thinking was that I want her not because shes attractive but because her mind is so beautiful which i can say has never happened before in the 3 years I was addicted to porn. Maybe this is just my brain removing itself from seeing women as sex objects, i'm not sure. The other days I really have hard flat line I try to engage in activities I like to do to keep my mind off of it. For me I'll go to the gym and spend hours playing pick up basketball . By the time I finished playing the only thing I'm thinking about is my bed. When I did reach my 30 day and 60 day goals I sort of felt like saying forget it and fap away but instead I just remember why I started. It brings up memories of when I couldn't get up with girls, the depression I had, exhaustion , brain fog , extreme social anxiety etc. I never want to experience any of that again man. PMO was really holding me back. I feel like I am really living my life now. Now I want to get out of bed in the morning and tackle whatever obstacles I face that day. My life is completely different and so far I love it! I hope that helps you a little and good luck!
     
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  8. KobeIsTheGOAT

    KobeIsTheGOAT Fapstronaut

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    All in favor of voting this into the top 25 NoFap usernames?
     
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