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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by gogibasket, Sep 14, 2016.

  1. gogibasket

    gogibasket Fapstronaut

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    I'm on day 15. I don't fap and watch porn but I sexchat with girls and exchange naked pictures with them and we chat about sex. Dirty chat. I plan to do hard mode and I was till day 10 and then I start this. I don't count this as relapse cause I don't fap and watch porn but it's still feeding sexual desire and it will slow down reboot for sure.
     
  2. EthanH

    EthanH Fapstronaut

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    I recognize this. It will be easier for you if you also quit with those chats. For me, those sex chats are just like porn, especially if your exchanging naked pictures. Basically, you can't get the moving pictures to give you pleasure and to easy your urges... so you go to the next best thing: chats and pictures. But it is still porn. It still affects your brain.

    For me personally, it only made my nofap more difficult. You are still constantly thinking about sex and you are replacing one bad thing with another.

    Good luck!
     
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  3. seth

    seth Fapstronaut

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    Agreed! It's porn.
     
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  4. gogibasket

    gogibasket Fapstronaut

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    I'm afraid ur right guys! I should quit it
     
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  5. EnglandExpects

    EnglandExpects Fapstronaut

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    For me, this is worse than porn. I never had much of a problem with porn, but I was very addicted to online sex for a long time. I spent most of my time on adult dating sites looking for hookups. You can read my old journal if you want to know how bad it was for me.

    Perhaps the biggest problem with this is that it seems like it's "better" than porn because you are talking to "real girls." But the problem is still the same: you're wasting your life on meaningless, objectifying sex, and you can't control yourself. It's a long, dark rabbit hole; please don't do it.
     
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