My Girlfriend cannot understand

Hey Jeff,
I'm in a similar situation, as I'm doing a hard mode reboot while still having (O-less) sex with my wife. There is no point in denying the advantages of O-less intercourse, as it allows you to do a hard mode reboot while still being intimate with your partner. It takes the ugly Chaser-effect out of the equation, too. Especially during the early stages of your reboot, the Chaser effect can be too much to handle. I never heard about your taoist teachings, but I assume that it's somewhat similar to karezza?
The question is, doesn't your g/f understand why you're doing this, or doesn't she want you doing it? My wife doesn't exactly enjoy me abstaining, but she understand that it serves a greater good, and she's longing for the day when my self-imposed abstinence is over and we can go back to "regular" sex.
Also, please do yourself a favor and disregard the imprudent ramblings of some people on here. Everybody has to find his own path to self improvement.

 

You should give her some pointers into the karezza direction, I found the experiments with o-less intercourse highly rewarding myself. You/she might take a look at "Cupid's poisoned arrow" as well; although I didn't read it myself, it's recommended by numerous karezza-evangelists on here.

 

You dont have a clue what you're talking about. Just because you read about some bs teqnique online doesnt mean that its good for you. The whole point of nofap is to re-sensitize yourself to porn but if you are edging, which is essentially what this is, than the dopamine rush to your brain is very high and will cause desensitization and has a higher potential for addiction. So please explain to me where you gained this godly knowledge that sex without O is somehow good...

Not to mention there is no way that this is sustainable, he or you wont be able to go 90 days of having sex without O, I guarantee it.

 

Its clear you have very little knowledge. Did you know that after prolonged periods of stimulation your semen is already withdrawn from you testicles and is ready to be pumped when you orgasm? If it is not pumped because you do not orgasm you get rid of it in your urine. Like I said you dont have a clue what youre doing and you wont be able to go 90 days without O by doing this. All you are doing is glorified edging, dont kid yourself

 

I kindly beg to differ. Not only did I practice O-less sex myself for several months, I'm also perfectly sure that it helped me overcoming my addiction faster. The point of karezza is not to edge, it's to focus on gentle touch and keeping the arousal way clear of edging. Because the foundation of a good relationship is not quick, reward driven sex, it's sustained love and respect for each other. Just because you think that you figured it all out, doesn't mean that everybody else is wrong. I would kindly ask you to put a bit more thought into your next contributions to this thread, or at least inform yourself better on the topic at hand, it would be highly appreciated.

 

The book by Mantak Chia The Multi Orgasmic Man helped me a lot.
But for a faster recovery from today on I am trying not to masturbate and orgasm with or without ejaculation for some time. Not using porn anymore is a matter of fact for me, its definately past, this I know for sure. And I am aware of dangers, we all use computers these days and its just a few clicks away...