Overanalyzing the flatline?

you are overreacting but flatline can be very scary, you need lots o patience, hang in there dude!

 

Flatline is your friend, even if its hard to see it that way.
Time to stop thinking about sexuality and try to get better step by step if possible.
I can't get hard by thoughts anymore after 250 days. Why? Because I don't allow myself to fantasize or objectify women. Then, the erection occurs naturally when I'm in contact with the wife.

 

Maybe its my wording?
because I had PIED with the wife and realized that only porn (in front of computer) and dirty ideas would get me hard, and that real sex foreplay with my wife wasn't exactly getting me hard anymore (I was too habituated and desensitized, calling it VANILLA sex), I decided to shield my brain from all sex thoughts. Replacing sex ideas with positive ideas..just like a gardener pick all the weeds by hand, one by one....

Now, the body senses are doing all the work, just like I re-learned to be aroused by skin contact, caresses, smells, touching, etc....

Men are thinking about sex a awful lot during a day. I wanted to tackle that issue. I somehow managed to get it done.

 

Same feeling here

 

Do you still get night time or morning wood?
Just wondering.
I am on day 6 and last night I woke up with an erection (no thoughts or contact with wife).

 

I get morning wood sometimes, but too often. I really have to connect sexually to get something going. Maybe its temporary, but I only allow myself to think about my wife. So if I think about our last encounter, I will most likely get hard.

 

In my case, i have no desires to fantasizing about P. Sometimes i just dreaming about me and gf during intercourse and i can get hard by it. But I know, it's not healthy for recovery... I have morning wood almost everyday.
Im 19, virgin

 

Ive been in flat line for 70 days, best advice= take it as it comes and just ride it out. It gets better trust me.