This is Day one for me, anyone wanna Join in with Me?

Mate. Were all in this together. With regards to the women thing, dont stress about it and it will happen. Try to look after yourself more. Love yourself forget about the negative things Im sure you have many good qualities. You have to appreciate them about yourself and believe them in order to convince any woman to like you.

Were all in this together, lets get rid of the porn and the associated self pity. Eat healthy, exercise often and the best advice I can give you. Accept any social invitation to do anything with anyone. Meet people and the relationships you develop will help you gain back your self esteem which will reduce the need for porn and will make you more confident, hence more appealing to women.

Love yourself man, just understand your value, you are not just another person, im sure you are special with many good qualities. Just believe in yourself.

 

Amen to that. That is strong man!

 

I do like Who I am and I treat myself with respect. I know im better than 99% of guys Who just lie to Girls to get them. I dont like to do that because when a woman finds out that you like... Things get complicated a lot. But even to sell a lie to a woman is an art. You have to know how to aproach her which I dont know at all. Besides women where I live are so repelling to the guys and look down on them like they are trash.
I have to get rid of porn and masturbation even if it means I will be for ever alone... Which is possibile

 

count me in bro

 

A few days behind you, but I'm starting on a 30 day as of today. Good to be with you.

Actually gonna do no dating sites, sex, or flirting with women either for this first 30 days. Plan is to do the 30, then just see how that goes. I'm thinking I might decide to go another 60 after that... but I don't want to bite off more than I can chew to start. 30 is doable right now, but I'm really glad to have this support. Let's do this.

 

30 days without PMO here we go

 

I'm in.

 

Its day 3 for me today and im feeling great. Just wondering how my head gets filled with lies that make me feel negative and force me into the deep dark pit of pmo.

Over the weekend, nothing special has happened, just the same old regular stuff but im feeling a lot better. I havent wasted hours on end watching porn and humiliating myself. Its such an encouragement to me and thats why I am posting.

All you strong warriors out there dig your heels deeper, stand your ground and keep pushing. The image I see is that of a rugby scrum. Were all together, shoulder to shoulder and pushing forward. Have a great day everyone

 

I just noticed that this poll will be closing on October 13.... so I think that we have to make a new thread in order to keep posting and sharing our journey!

 

day 5 nearly done, much clearer head today

I've been wanting to have a cup of coffee but that's about it for temptation today.

 

i'm on day 3. notthing much happened. i think i should wait a bit longer to see the changes

 

Guys try and catch me

 

20% there guys

 

I almost relapsed yesterday but I think some divine intervention greatly helped me.
I went to bed early because thats the best way to stay out of trouble, woke up at about 4am and this is the problem. Tried going back to sleep, tried playing relaxing music but to no avail.
Then temptation stepped in and had an open goal to score, picked the ipad and tried to watch porn but it simple didnt play any videos no matter how i tried. I just got fed up and kept trying to go back to sleep.
I think I was looked after by divine powers, a great encouragement that even if I slip there is help to keep me from falling flat on my face.
Have a good day every one, I promise I will try harder

 

i don't belive it was some divine intervention but your own will. it was you. your self control.
when i have this toughts i just sit on my bed and try to meditate. think about something nice. focus on that one thing. or read a book. books are always great. its my day 4 today. i have no will to watch porn but when i woke up i had a fantasy of my coworker's insane legs... then i woke up and came up here to check if there is osmething new and put my clothes to a washing machine... i try to do things to make my brain bussy with other stuff. i will go read now some book i never wanted to read. i still don't want to but i will do distract myself

 

Khudjo, we can do it! Its only day 2 for me, but I'm feeling amazing! I'm do not M since 9/September but i only stop watching P yesterday. Today I was very concentrated at work and I could started a garden at home, instead of M!

 

khudjo I'm with you, I started yesterday but I'm willing to abstain porn with out relapses that's my ultimate goal.

 

Me. I relapsed today, and I felt so bad I'm really trying my best to stop now.