Rebooting And Sex

Having sex itself is great, because you are rewiring to the real deal. However, as I've found out a few weeks ago, the actual orgasm part is what sets me back. So, though just speaking from personal experience here, I'd say keep having sex, but cut out the orgasms for now. I suppose, if you really want to be safe, you could abstain from sex altogether for about a month or two and then reintroduce sex over the course of the third month, while still abstaining from orgasm the entire time.

 

I'm on monk mode right now which is no pmo, no images on social media, no sex, no sexual thoughts, etc... and I'm seeing the benefits quickly as far as my mental state and people attraction (not just women). I will say if you want to rewire your brain faster, than abstain from having sex but if your in some kind of relationship and it would be truthfully hard not to have sex for about 90days, than just have sex. It wont help your progress, It wont hurt your progress. keep it up !

 

I guess this is something only you can tell, cause we are all different. For me I had sex 2 times during this month and it did kinda drain me of energy and motivation a bit, chaser effect was there too after first time. I got trough all of this and kept going but I suppose it is a good idea to postpone sex atleast in the first few weeks. After that momentum kicks in so it shouldn't be a big problem. Hope it helps

 

dear; i am new here. please tell me proper procedure.how you people set these goals? how can i decide that i have completed that goal?

 

You need a bunch of likes to be able to set a counter. I think it's like 5 or 10 or something. It's been a while for me, so don't quote me on the exact amount. But here, have a like. As soon as you hit the quota, you can click on anyone's counter in their signature and create a new one for yourself.

 

Yes, you can start by posting some experiences or such, and people will like that post. When you get 5-10 likes (not sure of the number ether) you can click someone's counter and make your own. Good luck