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Encouragement for rebooters

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Oct 9, 2016.

  1. I am day 82. I sometimes still have urges to watch porn but I know this is just temporary and it will lead to binge if I relapse.

    Pro's:
    - More happy
    - No guilt
    - Not scared if someone uses your mobile/pc
    - Pied is totally gone.
    - More selfcondidence.



    cons:
    Only one thing: I feel lonely sometimes. Porn was there whenever I felt lonely.


    About Pied:
    Reflecting now I see that I once had sex with a girl when I was 120 days clean of porn and the sex was amazing.
    My last time I wanted to have sex with a girl I had Pied. I was watching porn a lot. And the extreme shit. Not the weir shit, but just extreme. It was such a shameful moment that I couldn't have a boner. This was life changing.

    For all of the people who have had or still have Pied. Don't watch porn and you will get cured.

    One golden tip:
    Have patience. This shit is not cured in 1 week. It takes several months
     
  2. soufstar

    soufstar Fapstronaut

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    good luck, it is really amazing when I hear such stories
     
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  3. YvesQuits

    YvesQuits Fapstronaut

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    First of all congratz on day 82 man, that's an impressive achievement.
    Thank you for sharing your story and the pro's you've listed keep me motivated, I'ts just recently that I participated to the 90-days, I'm 1.5 day in now and it's a struggle already.
    I have had a lot of sex partners and 2 relationships. That didn't stop me from PMO unfortunately. I can imagine that lonelyness goes with watching porn,
    since it releases dopamine which results in happiness. I'm sure that everyone feels lonely at some point. This was the same for me aswell,
    but I do think that the most urges I have to PMO is when I'm frustrated. I play a lot of League of Legends (which I'm quitting now aswell) and that game frustrated me alot,
    so I went and chose the easy way out. I've read on the internet that there were only pro's to MO, but I started to notice some negative effects.
    I have been watching P since I was 11 yo, and it grew into some sort of habbit. I kept feeding my urges for years.
    I started to get "brain foggy", started watching extreme shit aswell, not because of a fetish or anything, but just because it was more exciting to watch and
    would make MO easier, since I was doing it 1-2 times a day. It decreases my motivation to have sex with women and that causes an unhealthy sexlife.

    Once again, thanks for sharing, really...
    You sure will reach the 90-days, keep it up!
     
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  4. Bigballs

    Bigballs Fapstronaut

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    Thanks your advise is priceless but I keep relapsing everytime it's a different perspective I get
     

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