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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by femnofap, May 19, 2014.

  1. femnofap

    femnofap New Fapstronaut

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    I'm a 20 yo female. I have a wonderful girlfriend who I love so much, but when we have sex, I can't orgasm. We've been having sex for three months, and not once have I managed to orgasm. I didn't want to disappoint her so I've been reduced to faking it every time.

    On the flipside, masturbating was an obsession of mine for a few years, and now I can only orgasm by myself. I've gotten myself so used to the exact way that I do it, that no matter what my girlfriend tries, it doesn't get me there. So I've decided that maybe I need to swear off masturbating all together to retrain my brain. Maybe it will realize what she's doing is good enough and I won't have to fake it anymore. That's all I really want.
     
  2. Spartan

    Spartan Fapstronaut

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    Sis youz in the right place. There's plenty of ninjas here who can give you the right advice, and even from a lady-like way of lookin' at things (like Cocorosie).

    In the meanwhile, stick around, read, post and digest feedback. Get a counter as well goal-setting will help you get there - fer real !

    Stay spartan.
     
  3. Hello femnofap!!! Delighted to see you here gal. Recognizing you have a problem is the first step towards recoveery.

    While I've never myself encountered any sexual problems, I know a lot of people who recovered from them. It's more than possible; it's doable. It will happen. What I can tell to you from my own experience is that before I quit, it took my hours to turn me on and now just seeing a random pic liquefies me. Besides, sensitivity is immensely regained. I now have trouble sometimes simply showering because even though I don't have any sexual thought whatsoever, I'm just super sensible.

    I really want it for you too. You'll see, guys and gals here are amazing and extremely supportive. In any case, I'm the moderator of the Women section, and I beg you to pop me a message whenever there is a problem or simply if you just feel like it. My inbox is ready! Have the best day, take the time to browse a bit tips and tricks. And don't forget the Number 1 rule: touch you only to clean. Hug!
     

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