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no more porn,get your dick out of your hand, wake up and come back to life

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by StarKing, May 19, 2014.

  1. StarKing

    StarKing Guest

    no more porn, come back to life

    hello nofappers,

    I have experienced only good things from this challenge, not superhuman powers but just natural good things.

    I started this incredibly journey months ago. When I started I wanted to rid my mind of all the corrupting perverted thoughts that hardcore porn inspired in me, to exist in society without being anxious around women all the time, and to have control of my life. I did my 90 days and am still going, after a couple of months it got easier and easier not to watch and M but the beginning was extremely hard.For all the beginners its important to accept this, that this challenge is fucking hard to do!

    I am not a religious man but I feel more accepting that there is a divine power that wants YOU to be happy and have all you want in life.But I didn't know what I was getting myself into.this nofap challenge is very powerful and I have found I have had to take a new challenge.

    Now here is my trouble, I am unconsciously attracting the attention of women I interact with everyday(at the office and at college)and I know I could easily start something with them, its magnetic,it is just easier to click with girls now-it really is too easy,they drive me fucking nuts,i just want to pounce on them you know.Its real...So what's the trouble you ask? I am married...temptation is the trouble.I love my wife and I have connected on a deeper level with her since starting nofap, I wouldn't cheat on her but damn there is a lot of fun to be had if I was a single gent.wink wink nudge nudge.

    I guess what I am trying to say is if you are single and have problems interacting with the opposite sex then it is paramount that you do a nofap challenge...it is a human need to have relationships in your life and not to be a single loner all the time, eying girls from a distance wishing they would notice you, I was a loner for 20 odd years with no girlfriend, SO i KNOW. I am not saying that you will become a dream idol of every girl you meet but there will be an Alpha energy that women DO want and nofap will only help you find that someone. There is someone out there for you, she is waiting for you to find her, but its not going to happen if you are sitting at home on your ass PMO'ing all the time to pixels! life will sadly just sail on by you..like it was for me..so I say this in the most respectful way, GET YOUR DICK OUT OF YOUR HAND AND COME BACK TO LIFE!;)

    P.S If you are gay then replace all the references to girls with guys.
     
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  2. GoldenRatio

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    Very inspiring post man. I,ve been in relationships and there was always a point where I wanted to sleep with other women but PMO helped me not to. It is not in our genes to be monogamist (men and women) but I think it is possible to train ourself to become it out of respect for our partner and for ourself. Not an easy thing, I the temptation will always be there, you need to get used to it and not surrending. The reasons why Im doing this change are pretty similar to your but the difference is I am single. I have noticed that magnetic alpha energy a few times since the begining. Its alot easier to keep strong eye contact with women without getting intimidated, I just like how it feels. I just havent got the balls to go to a stranger and start flirting whit her yet but I will make this happen soon.

    Stay strong:cool:
     
  3. C-1000

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    Amazing, man! Now you have too many girls gravitating around you ;) I like that
     
  4. Tom_meadow

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    hey there chunda,

    I like how you point to how nofap not brought you superhuman powers, but just good natural things. Sometimes it's alluding to see nofap as the panacea for all 'problems', eliminating any social discomfort in ourselves, luckily my view on it has changed.

    Gosh I can imagine how it's driving you nuts, having that mojo attract so many women. On the other hand in this state it is even way more impressive you stay committed to your wife. I don't see you are negative towards the temptative feelings (want to resists) them, so that's a good thing. Man, you're a healthy guy, with some huge male potential/energy within you. Feel proud of it man :D!

    In a certain way I hope getting where you are, only i'll be eager 'to fish a little bit in the pond' (rather than the prior p-surfing). On top of that I'm single, so no problem there
     
  5. StarKing

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  6. StarKing

    StarKing Guest

    thanks vince!thanks for the kind words. it is driving me nuts but it is a good thing...because it means that I am being successful. Stick to your guns man and there isn't nothing you can't do...but you need that clear goal in yourself, this is the driving force I swear. life will change if you make the changes in yourself first, that's the hardest task, everything else comes into line after that...you are single bro, the world is your oyster! charge!
     
  7. Rafa

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    That's exactly what I'm experiencing! I feel a lot more confident at flirting and it's like they can sense it.
     
  8. Nice post! I think you are another really good example of the benefits of nofap and also not watching porn. Congratulations! I am happy that you are not abusing your power and reverting to your weaker self of requiring new girls everyday, whether they be real or not.

    Yes of course you could do that, but i think you realise that what you have with your wife means something, and what you would have with just a different girl everyday is a remnant of your porn watching novelty wanting days and in the long run would mean nothing.

    Keep strong brother!
     
  9. Hiroki

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    ChundaKing you are an inspiration.
     
  10. cheek123

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    Great wake up call .. thanks for the post. My dick will remain out of my hand haa.
     
  11. forever

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    Man,this place is awesome.I'm a newbie and i'm so confident after seeing all you guys.
     
  12. not2late

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    Yeah. I wish I knew about this when I first started struggling. I started my battle 6 years ago. Back then I could only find a christian reply to porn (which sounded a bit out of this world). 3 years and 3 counselors later I gave up and right now my connection with my wife is a mess because of it. Now I'm here, reading succes stories and thinking I should be able to do that!
    On the whole attracting girls issue: if you don't want new moral / personality issues I'd refrain from cheating. Be proud of who you are and the attraction you have and focus on your wife. Work on your marriage!
    Thanks for posting
     

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