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JOIN THE 90 DAY REBOOT PROGRAM HERE!! (CHECKED DAILY AND HOSTED BY Real_OGH)

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Real_OGH, Sep 18, 2015.

when does everyone want to start the reboot?

  1. 21th September

  2. 1th October

  3. ASAP

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  1. edok93

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    Hard mode, is when you stay off PMO ( porn, masturbation and orgasm) for a period of time you decide, in order to reboot your brain.You shoul read the info section of this website, it's really well done and complete
     
  2. Mlaj

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    Thanks!
     
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  3. Mlaj

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    I'm buying some hypnosis sessions to end this (http://www.wendi.com/breakfree/). Hypnosis has been very helpful to me in the past. And, I'm ungrading to Premium. To force myself to quit. I have a real problem. I don't want to pretend it's nothing anymore. I MUST BEAT THIS.
     
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  4. Sam@89

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    You've made a brilliant start! I'm sure many of us including me can relate with you.We went through really hard times and started following an addiction to counter our problems.It never solved anything.We started to involve ourselves in this shit everytime we wanted to get out of any tough situation rather than actually going and fight it.That's where we lost our manhood.This nasty monster inside us damaged our manhood.However the best thing is that we are aware now and we are here.I've been an addict for 8 years to Porn and I started masterbating when I was 7 or something. Around 20 days ago I found this community and it changed my life.I still don't believe it but I've made it.I've actually stopped counting days.Point is I never want to revert.
    I will suggest you to hang around here for a while in the start.It really helpled me.I used to M for more than 20 times in a day so you can imagine the change I have undergone.start a journal in whatever forum.Keep writing.Speak your heart out.Go read the success stories section.It's awesome.As you not masterbate for more days you will want to not masterbate for even more days.just
    Kill all your urges right when They enter your mind.
    Let yourself feel empty/bored/depressed etc and accept it.Skip the shitty solution your brain presents with i.e. to PMO
    Write, write and write your progress, feelings make conversations.
    We're all here to have you with us in This journey that will bring the best out of us.
    :)
     
    Last edited: Nov 9, 2016
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  5. Sam@89

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    That's a great move!! I look forward to see you as a winner!
     
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  6. Mlaj

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    Thanks! Now I see how powerful an addiction can be. But I'm stronger.
     
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  7. modetorres

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    Day 87.
    i feel so fucking lonely today ....
    And Trump have won that's making me more deppressive
     
  8. mcrcvrng

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    Joining in this one late but I'm going for 6 months. Day 3.
     
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  9. M4s1cF@n7

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    I have made it pat the two week mark!!! I am really happy about that. It is still difficult. I think about P and PMOing. I had a dream last night that I PMOed. I felt the same way I always do relieved for a moment and then disgusted and disappointed in myself. The dream seemed so real I thought I actually had relapsed and PMOed.
     
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  10. Sam@89

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    I wish to share somethings with you all.The girl that I love most in this world again left me yesterday.She started talking in a good way but then suddenly told me she wasn't feeling anything so she can't talk.We have been together for 3 years and almost stopped talking 6 months back but in these couple of days we started talking. She even told me that she misses me and all but all of a sudden she screwed me up.I kept crying yesterday, all day.Didn't even brush my teeth and took a bath.That's the height of depression I go through.I became so weak that I wanted to just go back to my old habits.PMO seems like it will relieve me of all the grief I have.I had really deep urges out of this depression in the night but just slept somehow.Since morning, I was remembering about what she did to me and feeling really low.I began to scroll and look at all the girls I was talking to in PMO days.I even left a message to a girl.I began to touch myself.For a moment, I forgot about that I have come this far and that PMO is long gone.These shitty situations in life beat you to Your knees and beat you again to surrender.I really didn't want to give up urges today.It was making me feel that I will get out of all tje depression but I know that it is going to lead me into a more nasty and helpless state.I didn't want to do it at all but I closed the hangout app.Didn't write anything except a Hi and I will wind up the conversation if the girl replies back.
    Friends, I am so weak today.How fucked up it feels when a person That You truly love and want in your life, leaves you like that by saying things you wouldn't imagine but I have made a decision that I will not revert to PMO to counter these feelings if they appear, again.This was the first time in my No PMO journey so far that I feel this depressed and I still didn't give up.I hope I have given you all some strength.God help us all become strong and help us become better human beings.
     
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  11. Sam,

    You cannot afford to go back... look how far you have come. I am so sorry that you believe she was the love of your life, but she clearly wasn't and time will show that if you stay strong and allow it.

    ITS HARD, but look at it from this perspective, you got your mojo back and are strong enough to take this and make it an adventure. Its a new thing, not only to your body but to your life. Maybe you were with her during the years of PMO, i don't know... but i do know you aren't the same person you were yesterday.

    Everyday without fapping is a newer STRONGER you. One that is deadly, can take anything and can give even more. TEST yourself, survive this too, keep fighting, keep pushing on... a true woman will come and replace your boyish dreams. Do not go back. Remember, if you tap, you are trading your manhood for a circumstance. You are literally giving your manhood to walk away with . NO

    keep it, hold it and wait for a new woman who can handle the new you, the real you to come along, you are READY. Besides, who knows if your "true love" won't come back. You did the bold thing in letting her go.
    If she comes back she is truly yours, if not. Well, you truly belong to someone else.

    Stay strong brother, for us.
    You brought us this far, we are with you to the very end.
     
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  12. Sam@89

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    Thank you @Lale
    I have a good control over urges when they appear out of nothing. I just avoid them and it becomes easy with time.However, the depression and the sorry state which I go through is extreme.I have a fucked up quality of caring too much.Feeling intensely which no one really gives a damn about.As a result, the rejection, broken heart and depression kills me.I've been accustomed to PMO whenever I had any sort of problems.I've had a good control over the most situations now and I need to win over this too.I have always gone bACK to her after we stopped talking. I still want her in my life Inspite of all the fights and emotional trauma.But I promise you my friend and I promise myself that I have done enough. I made a big mistake to go talk to her and my hopes went high and she crushed them out of her own interest.If she was destined to be, she will come back and I would accept only if she can go through what I go through for her.If she can't even wait for me, I don't think I need to ruin myself and my family for her.I will better let her go.I have so much anger and I'm despaired but no matter what I'm standing up again.I didn't give up.I really hope things go easier with every passing day.I know if I had relapsed to forget about all tje depression and about her.I would miss her Even more after some hours and I would relapse again and again to counter it.It's a never ending cycle.I hope I will look back at this day in the future and feel proud that I Took the right decision.
    Thanx a lot once again!
     
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  13. modetorres

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    I'm sorry for you man but you need to get over this situation. If I were your friend I could buy you a beer or we could walk to a waterfall and have a good time. I've been on the same situation and is awful, good luck my friend you can do this i'm with you
     
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  14. Sam@89

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    Thanx for care @modetorres
    I am trying to get over the situation. To not resort to any bad habits to forget about these situations but rather facing them and making myself stronger for the future.
    Bottle of beer with a buddy would be so wonderful though.Thank you
     
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  15. Happynow

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    On Day 3 and feeling good! Struggling a bit with thoughts but I'm determined to continue and see this through!
     
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  16. modetorres

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    I don't know if you need it, do it
     
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  17. modetorres

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    Day 88,
    Depression has gone for today, I'm not feeling lonely
    I'm just tired xD
     
  18. Sam@89

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    I am going through a really tough time for last 2 days.I hope I can forgive her for what she did because it has made me really weak and sensitive.I can see it clear that it is my depression and that low feeling which makes me want to go to the dark worlds again.I wanT to apologize that I even fell for those in these 2 days.I didn't break my streak but I certainly broke the rule.I looked and thought about the stuff to counter my depression and this could be dangerous. I Hopr things fall in place soon.I am just feeling really low and also guilty that I let myself get weaker.We're supposed to be on the right path no matter what the situation is.I'm frustrated that my mind still convinces me to go to that shit again.We have to get rid of this thing.I hope everyone is doing good.Please pray for me if you can.I'm really weak for now and need positivity and I'm sorry that I looked into that stuff again.It isn't porn.It's just some weird fetish that I have and I hate it.I promise I wouldn't let my mind go through that shit again even if it is the last thing left.
     
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  19. Don't be ashamed Sam.
    Keep your eyes focused on the world, don't look down. So many people have something to be ashamed about. Not you...

    You are facing your fears, that is an noble life. An admiral quality. Do not be ashamed.

    GOD loves you, and will never stop. He is inside you, the side of you fighting your other self. you are weak, but you also know great strength, acknowledge that you are strong 80% of the time, so you notice when a weak state overcomes you, even though it doesnt last.

    Also, forgive her man. Then let her go.
    She will come back [but it may even be to late for her]
     
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  20. I am in. Been trying at nofap for about a year now, lasted twice for 21 days. I don't know if ill make it to 90 and beyond but I want to and I believe in myself to do it :) good luck to you all guys :)
     
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