Why do I think about women all the time?

Well, I can relate to this man. Alltough I have been with very beautiful women, but these last years I lost my touch. It's been a while now and I feel just like you the insecurities. I think this is because of you being negative because of quiting porn and a low dopamine level. These are no facts, just my thought about it.

Let's put it this way. If you keep relapsing, you may be right. You will never be with a beautiful women. To get something you want but never had you need to do something you've never did. No pmo is great for this. Keep going bro and don't accept toughts about relapsing. When they come, say fuck off and stay in a won't do it anyway mindset. This helped me a lot. When you accept them entering the mind and consider to relapse or the 'how would it feel like if I just do it' way of thinking ur too late. Block it as soon as possible. Believe me, this is the Best advice someone has ever gave to me which work very very good! Don't run away from your cravings. Face them and never ever accept the thoughts of that filth.

 

That's good to hear man! I'm currently in a flatline and expierence a lot of withdrawels right now.

Let's run to the top and never look back, we got this!!!

 

Because you got positive reinforcement from thinking about them in the form of dopamine, so you inadvertently trained your brain to think about them all the time. Take time to think about women as more than their bodies, but as fully realized individuals with all kinds of non sexual motivations and aspirations. Take time to think about yourself in the same terms. Work on diminishing your over pronounced sexuality in favor of all the other great things you are. It's a muscle, keep working at it, and you'll find after a while that you've become stronger.

 

A friend of mine who had studied psychology once told me that when you yearn for a woman but know the two of you won't get closer to each other, it's not a real yearning for that person, but a yearning for the feminine parts of your own personality. This sounds quite abstract, and may be even a little esoteric, but it has helped me in understanding my emotions I think. You yearn for this kind of feminine energy because you can't feel it inside of yourself. You project your longing into the outer world because you think you can't find it within. The conclusion is of course that you should start looking for parts of your personality which seemingly got lost along the way! Of course that doesn't mean you should start to dismiss every thought about women, but it's good to always be aware of this possibility! Ask yourself: What does this give me? What do I want to find, or even obtain, conquer?