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I just watched a movie sex scene.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by jeffreyvt8, Nov 10, 2016.

  1. jeffreyvt8

    jeffreyvt8 Fapstronaut

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    Ok, so I was watching a movie and a sex scene came up. I didn't masturbate or anything it ejaculated by itself. Now I feel damn guilty. All the hard work is gone.

    Highest streak 19 days. Don't know if I should restart..
     
  2. Frühlingstimme

    Frühlingstimme Fapstronaut

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    Spontaneous ejaculation is not a problem. I felt so guilty after my first wet dream that I relapsed afterwards. There's no need to restart. But beware that this guilt might be your brain saying "you screwed up now go fap" that's basically what happened to me.

    So calm down, and keep your journey on nofap :)
     
  3. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    • There was intentional arousal... check ----> No reset .
    • This was not a DIY ejaculation... check ----> No reset.
    There will be times when there will be something that's a trip wire and will cause an explosion and we didn't see it coming. As @Frühlingstimme said spontaneous ejaculations do occur, treat them as wet dreams. Clean up and move forward.
     
  4. diddykong

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    It's a shame that lots of movies and TV series seem to have fairly graphic sex scenes now. I try to avoid anything that I know will be overly sexual but as hard as we try it can be pretty hard to avoid. I basically had to stop watching a TV series because it had a lot of unnecessary sex scenes. I thought I was safe with superheroes but I even found Deadpool pretty triggering!

    So yeah, despite our best intentions you can see something that you didn't want to. You didn't go looking for it which means to me it's not a relapse. Just beware of the chaser.
     
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  5. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    Ah, the joys of youth.
    Seriously though, you were surprised but did not let your hands see any action. I am impressed. Now that you are fore-warned, what can you do the next time a scene surprises you?
    I recently watched an R rated movie with some friends and spent some time checking out my shoes; I also made a couple of well timed trips to the kitchen and bathroom. I knew a scene was coming, and I knew I did not need to experience it.
    Best of luck with your continuing reboot; keep up the good work.
     
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  6. feo1966

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    Yup...a normal person can enjoy a sex scene in a movie..... But not a porn addict.

    I relapsed after watching Jennifer Jones on Netflix. Now I stay away from any movie with a hot actress
     
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  7. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    Jessica Jones, you mean?
     
  8. Hellboy123

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    BEWARE OF THE CHASER EFFECT, FOR IT HAS CONSUMED ME MANY TIMES - Gandalf, former CEO of Stark Industries
     
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  9. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    Can't believe you just spoiled my favorite TV series like that. Can't you at least give some warning next time? I thought Gandalf retired from the corporate world after leaving the Justice League. Fucking hell.
     

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