130 Days Hard Mode. Best Decision of my Life.

Your post was very inspiring brother, thanks so much! I'm in 80+ days myself, and currently going through a period where I feel very low(my anxieties mostly gone but it's just left me feeling very low and tired). I think this is a flatline. Was worried about this, but more reassured when reading that you went through it and that it eventually does pass. Hopefully it does pass for me too!

 

Great Post,Thank You! And Good Luck

 

I guess I am going through the "70 - 100 days" flatline, I am on day 81 and I feel depressed like Hell. God help me

 

Hi, know that feeling very well, been in flat line for most of my time ,3 months+.
The depressed low mood thing is crap, but we have to go through it. Im still in mine, but been told it doesn't last and on the other side you'll be a completely different person. Please keep going forward its not forever.

 

I'm in DAy 51

honestly I don't feel like I have much benefits just a tiny bump of motivation but I am still addicted to arousal feel like a loser and going no where in life. I have no motivation to do good in school pretty much at all. 19 years old never had a real job and have a bunch of acne. I feel like a worthless zombie. I am going to keep going Idk I have been addicted to porn for 3 years it sucks fantasies come in and out of my head I'm so terrible that I have to think about having conversations with people every 5 minutes even though no one is actually with me. I imagine the scenarios where I am bright funny and charismatic which isn't the case now. UGGGhhh. I feel like a worthless loser cant even stop eating junk food and going on the internet. I just don't know what to do with my life. I always dream of finding the amazing girl but IDk. Your post is inspiring I hope I recover as well as you did.

 

Hi Koolman, I feel you man. This process will definitely help you but i feel like you could also read some self-help books to improve your self-esteem and self-confidence. This doesn't magically make you a superhuman. I feel like you have to see this as a complement to everything else in life that you are doing. I feel like you believe that this is the only thing in life that will make me great and that if it doesn't you will quit this reboot progress because you feel like meh it didn't do anything for me. BUT DON'T. Because it does man, but sometimes we also got other issues we need to work on and that's where the self help books or meeting a really close friend who can be your therapist or seeing a real one. Just to get your emotions straight.

 

Thanks man your right I do feel like I definitely have other issues. It just feels kinda hopeless sometimes like maybe I'm doing things wrong which is why I'm not seeing benifits or barely noticing them. I went this far once before and I noticed a lot of things. But now I don't know but I think your right I have to be patient and fix everything else I just feel like a super loser and have no motivation.

 

It's okay koolman, it's really hard at first but if you keep trying it'll get better. No matter what, you need to make sure you never give up on your goal to beat this. And maybe, take some walks and make some food if you need a bit of a shake up, but not confident for social events.

 

Very Inspiring! I am 30 years old and very impress by what you can do at such a young age, I have been able to do more than 3 weeks... Keep up the good work and keep us up to date with your progress.

Thanks!

Greco

 

Nice job on reaching 130 days. Can you give me some advice. I am on day 14 and ever since day 7 I haven't had any urges to M. But about two days ago I started noticing that I have some urges to M and it's slowly growing. These could be early warning signs or something. How do I prevent the early warning signs of M before it gets too late. Thanks

 

reminder here