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Did you experience the same ?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JailerGER, Dec 8, 2016.

  1. JailerGER

    JailerGER Fapstronaut

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    Hi guys.

    Im on day 10 on my first try right now.
    today has been a rly hard day to overcome the desire.

    the biggest problem im having ist that i dont get hard at all. not even when seein an attractive women on the strees or when small fantasies come into my mind which i try to push away asap.

    i havnt been hard for the last 10 days. what bothers me most is that i just got a new girlfriend and when we kuddle on the couch i feel the desire for her, but its not overly heavy sexual of some sort. so i dont even have to worry about getting it hard right there.

    im rly scared of something wrong right now, especially when we first get into bed together (which might happen on the weekend).

    so im rly close to relapse right now since i feel like i have to proov myself that i CAN get hard.

    1st prio right now for me is not fucking up anything with this girl
    and only 2nd the reboot.

    did any1 of you expereience something similar ?
    bcoz most i read here are either getting wet dreams or cant control their boner.
    opposite happening to me
     
  2. Soragis

    Soragis Fapstronaut

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    It's a flatline man, Google your brain on porn flatline and it explains just about everything but it will heal and your get your libido back
     
  3. outedskeleton

    outedskeleton Fapstronaut

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    What @Soragis said, flatline.

    On a personal note, I'm so glad I don't get random erections over an attractive female or just cuddling on the couch, lol.
     
  4. Dreadnoughts

    Dreadnoughts Fapstronaut

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    I think if you really don't want to fuck with this girl you need to explain what's going on. There will be two options: she accepts, understands, and offers to help you and support you. Or it doesn't work out. I don't know if you're just looking for a FWB or someone for the long haul (sounds like the long haul to me) then if she can't accept and understand then she probably isn't the one anyways.

    Loving someone means even if something happens to Them you'll be there to help them. A guy I work with and my buddy's went to school with his girlfriend was diagnosed with a rare disease that her body won't absorb nutrients and she's always throwing up and stuff. She isn't expected to live a full life, know what he did? He didn't leave her or toss her to the curb he married her and takes care of her.

    I see you're 28 so to me you have two choices again that are going to dictate the first choices you have to make.

    Do you want to be the guy who doesn't have someone and just sleeps around into his older years? (Some people don't mind this which is why it's your decision to make) Or do you want to find someone who makes you happy when you're sad, who seeing their face makes you smile, hearing their voice can make everything bliss, possibly marriage blah blah all that stuff.

    Life is full of choices. There are no right choices. Just remember we know about the past because we've been there, we don't know about the future because we haven't been there, we live the present and you're the one who decides your future.
     
    Last edited: Dec 9, 2016
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