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Small talk with young man on smartphone

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by ssa_ji, Dec 5, 2016.

  1. ssa_ji

    ssa_ji Fapstronaut

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    I was waiting in line for coffee and wanted to make small talk with the young man behind me.

    However he was busy with his smartphone so i didnt say anything.

    Was there are way i could have made small talk, or was it better to leave things as is?
     
  2. I wouldn't talk to somebody who is staring in their phone. To me it just shows that person is engaged into something else and probably would not reciprocate well cos of that. But then again, today everybody is with one eye in a phone. They do it automatically and it does not necessary mean that they are closed for communication. But it feels that way anyways.
     
  3. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    *looks up from phone* What?
     
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  4. Frühlingstimme

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    not much a person can do without being annoying. He's deliberately avoiding people.
     
  5. ssa_ji

    ssa_ji Fapstronaut

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    Ok the smartphone = do not disturb
     
  6. yeah, that is the feeling I get.
     
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  7. Allnightlong

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    It is just sad to see people running around like zombies with the eye on their smartphone all the time.
    No one is talking to each other, even people sitting on a table with their friends and family are starin at their phone

    To come to your question: Either he was really busy, or what I believe - he was just looking at his phone because well, everyone stares at their phone nowadays ;)
     
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  8. The irony is I'm reading this on my smartphone.

    *looks up*

    Nobody around.

    Forever alone.
     
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  9. Star Lord

    Star Lord Fapstronaut

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    This person would have been incapable of small talk anyway.
    They only know how to talk with their fingers.
     
  10. Or he could already have a girlfriend and is talking to her?!

    Seriously people, we need to stop judging people like this. It's unhealthy.
     
  11. Star Lord

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    I've observed people in waiting lines get their phones out and simply stare at the home screen for minutes, wanting to look busy haha.
    The modern person is such a wimp.
     
  12. Star Lord

    Star Lord Fapstronaut

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    Naaaaah he's clearly addicted to staring at his mobile.
     
  13. Whatever helps you sleep at night. ;)
     
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  14. Strength And Light

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    He was probably updating his NoFap journal and should be left alone. ;)
     
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  15. Deadlihood

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    I think you're a Son of a Bitch.
     
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  16. Deadlihood

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    PRESIDENT RMS HAS SPOKEN!! NOFAPPERS, TAKE NOTE!
     
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  17. It's sixx:am somewhere.
     
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  18. Audere est Facere

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    In response to OP:

    You could try and make convo, and see if they are open or not. Often times people are open to a real-life interaction because it is much more fulfilling, but they protect themselves by just staying on their phone.



    MY EXPERIENCE:

    I was about to approach a lady that was about to look at her phone, and i told her

    " Excuse me, can I talk to you for a second before you get on your phone"

    She really smiled and we had a great conversation.

    Often times people want a real-life interaction, but since they can't have it, they go back to their phones.

    This isn't always true though!

    Yea but i don't like to judge them, either
     
    Last edited: Dec 10, 2016
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  19. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    fight me irl
     
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  20. ssa_ji

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    Now I avoid staring into my smartphone when I am in public .... for one it's better to be mindful of surroundings.
     
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