three years of NoFap, no objectifying

Yes, it's huge...

I'm only 9 days into this (nothing comparable to your three years - impressive!!), but that's one of the things I'm trying the hardest to do: not to objectify, not to fantasize, not to imagine the girls/women around me in situations they really don't belong to...

I think about my previous thoughts, and they seem so unrespectful, unfair, and embarassing now...

And, funny enough, it seems the women around me are much more beautiful since I look at them with "cleaner" eyes...

 

this is one of my biggest goals!!!
after noticing how uncomfortable I had become around women,
because I was objectifying them as a result of too much PMO in my life...!
Virtually every attractive female was sized and put into a sexual fantasy in my head,
I could barely look a woman/girl in the eye while having a conversation,
and I was lucky to have any REAL conversations with the opposite sex because of the "creepy" vibes I surely was putting off!

after just 5 days PMO free, I'm already feeling more relaxed around women and I'm realizing just how awful my opinion and perception had become, I believe because of PMO
but this is the result of actively trying to reboot myself (my brain)
no where near a full recovery but...
your post is inspiring, and encouraging, Yukon
...thanks to you

 

I'll focus on both things just in case...

Anyway, looking backwards, I'd say that fantasizing on women around me has been the main trigger for Psubs and PMO, rather than the other way around...
I mean, I remember myself heavily fantasizing, and using this as a Psub, on my teenage years (how far they are.... ), when P was extremely analogic...

But I'm really trying hard not to slip in any of those old habits...

Thanks for your reply and insight, @yukon!!

 

3 years is heroic man. Internet High FIVE!!!

 

"What defines us is how well we rise after falling." -Unknown.
Slow and steady wins the race. I sure you can and you will beat pmo addiction again.
I wish you best of success on your NoFap journey !

 

What huge?
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