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Trying to cure Delayed Ejaculation while in a relationship

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by fredhamster, Dec 16, 2016.

  1. fredhamster

    fredhamster Fapstronaut

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    Hello, just stumbled upon this community and am very curious. I have searched the forum but haven't found a case exactly like mine. I have had delayed ejaculation my whole sexually active life, and coped with it by finishing myself off by hand with the girl still there. Used to watch porn and masturbate frequently and went through a phase I considered abnormal, so I quit porn cold turkey 8 months ago, and have been successful (made a big difference for my life). Now I am in a fantastic relationship (4months now) and wish I could finish without masturbation.
    I'm wondering about doing a reboot with no masturbation, and no finishing myself off with my girlfriend, BUT STILL HAVING SEX FREQUENTLY (just not finishing until it happens naturally).
    I'm interested in if it would work? and if anyone has had a similar experience, and dealing with girlfriend obligations/blueballs.
    Thank you in advance for any replies!
     
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  2. Tiny antelope

    Tiny antelope Fapstronaut

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    Great to have you here. You will find people here with sheared experiences, good advice and lots of support. Welcome.
     
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  3. ax345

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    @fredhamster - I should have read this before answering you in the other thread, because I didn't realize you meant that you finished off after sex with your GF present. Anyway, I think I had the same issues you have. I'm happy to say that I experienced drastic improvement in this condition thrpugh PMO reduction at more than twice your age. so, you're on the right track!
     
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  4. @fredhamster
    Google "Death Grip." It's one of the reasons I came to NoFap. Like you, I could not get off on sex with my wife anymore. The strong grip we use while jacking off cannot be matched by a vagina. So, that, combined with porn induced ED (PIED) was ruining our sex life.
    I have been PMO free do 10 days and I am seeing changes already. However, 40 + years of PMO will take me some time to recover from.
    Looking forward to your recovery.
    JQ
     
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  5. fredhamster

    fredhamster Fapstronaut

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    @ax345 @JohnQ3369 thank you both for the comments. I'm encouraged by your experiences
     
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