Falling in love and PM

Yes and no. I don't PMO anymore (if I do, it's a relapse), but in the past I would lose interest in porn just like you. However, I never perceived it as "having no libido". I perceived it as anticipating the real thing and not needing the artificial stimulation of my hand + porn anymore! So it's a positive thing, and it's more an increase in libido than a decrease. (Porn doesn't really have to do much with libido or "sex drive", it's just compulsive addicitive behavior which kills your actual libido.)

 

I experienced that Exactly the same

 

I can't promise you if you could understand what i said, but I will say it.
The biggest problem for this generation is the world from computer. If you somehow enjoy more computer life (video games, video, news, webs) than real life (play sports, travel, hiking), you might have imigination became real. This is not real, but it affect you in reality, anti-social, depression. To be honest, no-libido somehow means ED in real life, but good infront of porn.
I can tell that you would have libido again once you quite porn and masturbation for at least 7-10 days, even in front the girl you like.
to understand more, if you have time, read the link below:
https://www.NoFap.com/forum/index.php?threads/you-must-quite-addicts-this-is-why.87205/#post-703153

 

I'm married now, but I went through that exact same thing. It's funny, I just read this but I mentioned this phenomenon in my reboot log earlier today. Anyway, this had happened my entire life, even before the unlimited access to porn we have today. I would have absolutely no sexual thoughts about females I really liked, yet I wouldn't feel the need for P or M either.

I attributed it to being so stuck in the fantasy world that my brain has somehow compartmentalized sex from true love. I think this was caused by by an event that happened early in childhood that involved porn, but I'm sure my eventual addiction to P kept this alive. I just hope for our sake that we can heal from this.

 

This is my sex life in a nutshell! I've gone through all of those same things and wondered if I was alone in this. It's good to see I'm not. Unfortunately, this may be something much bigger than a PMO fix. It probably is something that would be best helped by therapy. I really wish I would have acknowledged this earlier in life.

 

I'm not a guy, but I can somewhat relate strongly to this. My biggest crushes / loves were always extremely platonic in nature, for me. I had no desire to bed them, but I strongly craved their emotional and intellectual presence. Sex only became an alluring option several months into the relationship, and if a relationship never happened (unrequited love) I didn't really care. I just wanted the mental closeness and could fantasize about that for hours on end.

I distinguish quite harshly between sex and love.