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Help! Situational question

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by thissucksim24, Jan 15, 2017.

  1. thissucksim24

    thissucksim24 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys, so I'm currently on day 20 of my nofap journey. Things have been going much better for me thus far, and really have no desire to watch porn. Quitting porn has been easy for me thus far, the only difficult part has been no MO. Anyways, I've been doing hardmode, and I've been extremely horny but able to hold off. So, the problem I'm having is that I've been chatting up this girl who wants to go out for some drinks tonight. I'm fairly certain she wants to hook up with me. My dilemma is twofold.

    1. If I hookup with her where does that leave me in my rebooting process?

    2. If I hookup with her having not MO'd in 20 days, I feel like I'll experience some pretty serious PE.

    Should I just say fuck it and forget about it? I'm fairly new here so I'm unsure if people still have sex while rebooting and if that's detrimental to them etc. Have any of you guys been in a similar situation? Please share your thoughts. Thanks in advance!
     
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  2. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    I didn't see your post until late, what did you decide to do?
     
  3. thissucksim24

    thissucksim24 Fapstronaut

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    Hey D.J., I ended up not hanging out with her. I went out for a drink with my sister and a few buddies of mine instead to watch the Steelers game. It was a tough decision but seeing as I was unsure of what it would bring, I feel it was for the best. Still PMO free day 21!
     
  4. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    AWESOME MOVE!!! That was a sure sign that you are taking this seriously by staying out of harms way. Congratulations on 21 days!!!
    I just found your journal so I'll be following your progress.
     
  5. thissucksim24

    thissucksim24 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man!! Appreciate the support!
     
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