Looking at girls

Naw, Real life is fine

 

It can leads to M which leads to P

 

Well half of all the people you will ever meet will be female, so not looking at them is not really an option. What counts is the attitude you take when looking at women in real life. It is acceptable to think to yourself "she's attractive" It is acceptable to say to yourself "I'd like to date her" (unless you know she's in a relationship already). What is a bad idea is imagining yourself having sex (of any description) with her or masturbating over a mental image of her. If you find yourself contemplating this then say to yourself either silently or out loud (if you're not in public) I am not willing to do this to myself and I am not willing to do this to Anna/Karen/Michelle/Stacey (or whatever her name happens to be). Use her name if you know it rather than simply saying "her"

 

As long as you look at them with respect, and don't think like a fuckboy.

 

Well, it's not like you're going to go through your day without seeing at least a few women. I say look but try not to stare!