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I just had sex and i have some serious questions

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by w800, Feb 2, 2017.

  1. w800

    w800 Fapstronaut

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    so i just had sex for around 3 hours with a girl i've been talking for around 3 days but we met just today (tinder date), my erection was hmm decent? but not full stiff and for moments it dropped down (specially everytime this girl tried to ride me cowboy). I couldn't cum at all and i had to masturbate to ejaculate over her..the orgasm was fairly poor not sure if because over stimulation or because fap has ruined me this deep...

    anyways i want to ask is it considered relapse if i ejaculated with the girl in this way?
    i am 17 no pmo..
     
  2. Deadlihood

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    It only counts as a relapse if she said "yee-haw!"
     
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  3. LucidBMX

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    Ha!
     
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  4. Health is key

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    Yeh it's a relapse man. I remember reading on ybop that you mustn't get yourself over the edge. If you came from her it's fine but doing it to yourself wires your brain to your own hand
     
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  5. Deadlihood

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    My man.
     
  6. w800

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    im guessing to be sure i should reset my counter then...anyways im not racing to hit 90 days, im here to regain a normal life again...thx man
     
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  7. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    Good luck to you.
     
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  8. Thrices

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    Hellow! I see what you are saying.everyone has given their respective opinion but i believe facts are more important.so here's mine,
    NoFap means not fapping.you had sex.what you did if im right was for the finished state,its called "helping a girl get your cum when she is unable to"its not a relapse in my opinion.i respect what everybody has to say here,but,i believe its a little childing to consider just a little rubbing as relapse.you had sex and thats evough wiring to override the so called wiring you had by rubbing your penis for semen.Thanks! Worry not you got laid thats great news have fun enjoy.^yee haw lmao
    For a side note:A lot of men do that in sex.
     
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  9. Your sexual experience sounded incredibly unfulfilling (insert that's what she said joke), but I guess it's progress when all you're worried about is your pmo counter. Ha!
     
  10. w800

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    im worried about that too but im only 17 days clean and i just read that there's such a thing like PED (porn erectile disfunction) so i thing im going trough that too
     
  11. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    17 days is a good start. See it through to a good finish.
    You shouldn't need your own hand for yourself, unless that is her fantasy that you do it for her, on her. More than her fantasy, it sounds more like a typical ending to cheap porn flick. I would suggest giving it up and finding what she likes. It probably is not acting out your favorite porn scenes.
     
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