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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by DeAndre Kato, Feb 1, 2017.

  1. DeAndre Kato

    DeAndre Kato Fapstronaut

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    I normally never joined forums but i decided i need help and this would be the best place to get it. I first started masturbating at age 13 when id find the models in the XXL hip hop magazine. I've always been straight and lusted after busty women but when i hit age 18 or 19 i discovered transexual porn. The fact that it felt s9 wrong turned me on >>Fastfoward 6 years (im going on 24) i can only orgasm to exclusively transwoman porn. I cant even get an erection when looking at a beautiful woman like i once did. 2 months ago i met a girl name Carla and we were sexually active. I was shocked i even got an erection to begin with but for the life of me i could not have an orgasm. We literally had sex for like 2 hours and it was hopeless. She started feeling like it was her fault.....but i couldnt tell her i was into transexual porn. With that being said guys i really need help. I dont want to do this anymore. I want my erection back and to free myself of this addiction. Starting my 90 day NoFap challenge
     
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  4. Hi @DeAndre Kato , welcome to NoFap
    It is a big step if you can understand what is triggering your urges, because this will allow you to be awake and kill those urges as soon as they appear.

    I recommend you to create your own "Emergency Toolbox" with readings that can be handy to read when you start feeling urges to screw up.
    I can share this post with you with my own Emergency Toolbox, it helped me a lot during the first few months, i had them in my cell and read them every time I started falling down:

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.p...y-first-320-days-of-reboot.62938/#post-473978

    I wrote some tips in this post that perhaps will help you too:

    http://NoFap.com/forum/index.php?threads/tips-that-helped-me-to-start-my-reboot.46617/#post-330318
    You can watch some interesting videos which are also very helpful in this post:
    http://nofap.com/forum/index.php?th...t-help-me-a-lot-during-my-reboot.39774/page-2

    I also suggest you to read "Breaking the Cycle" by George Collins, it is a must-read if you are serious about getting rid of this addiction.

    Last but not least, I would strongly recommend you to take the NoFap Academy course if you can afford it. The course is great but the best value are the weekly video calls with @alexander (the creator of NoFap and NoFap Academy) and Mark Queppet, where you can chat with them in real life and listen to other guys's stories and problems too.

    I hope that all this helps you to fight this shitty addiction.
    Let's keep on fighting

    Fercho
     
  5. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and not judge you.

    What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
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  6. alphamale2003

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    Welcome yo
    It won't be easy but you can do it. We will support you in every way possible. Be strong. It took balls to share your story now is the time to focus on getting yourself better.
     
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  7. DeAndre Kato

    DeAndre Kato Fapstronaut

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    Well so far playing video games has taken my focus off if masturbation, i work 12 hour shifts too so when i come home i am swamped, i keep my doors open, go to the gym, and do anything to divert my attention away from temptation. I feel like i will never get an erection normally again. So this is a fight i have to win.
     
  8. DeAndre Kato

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    Do you have any strategies to share?
     
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  9. DeAndre Kato

    DeAndre Kato Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the support brother......i wish this was a door ive never opened. But im going on 4 days no pmo. I feel no temptation currently but day 7 is when i start to feel it.
     
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  11. alphamale2003

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    Brah I'm on day 41. There are some days that are rough but I play videogames or watch a good movie and distract myself. you can use the red panic button if you get tempted too its a red button at the top of this page. Be strong do not watch any porn
     
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  12. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Check out In Case You Didn't Know for strategies and tips to help you along your journey.
     
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