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I don't know what I'm doing anymore

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by mijereah, Jun 12, 2014.

  1. Jun 12, 2014 #1
    mijereah

    mijereah Fapstronaut

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    I've seemed to just float through life. I have dreams but I've let them slip. I don't feel like doing anything anymore. Sometimes I don't think anything really helps recovery. Sometimes I just think if you live your life and forget about relapse and recovery than everything will just fall into place and so far it has. What really messes me up are my triggers, in which I can't fully understand them and why they come and go. Lately, I just haven't felt like doing anything. I don't know if I'm fully depressed, sometimes I just don't care about anything. Maybe I should go see a therapist but I don't know if that will work. I wonder what's worked for everyone else, especially those who have kicked this thing to the curb 180 days or more. I'm looking for the success stories. I'm wondering if there's ever a point in your life where you just forget about this stuff and never do it again.
     
    mijereah, Jun 12, 2014
    mijereah, Jun 12, 2014
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  2. Jun 12, 2014 #2
    LustFREE

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    NotsoaverageJoe posted this video in another post. this kind of describes what you're feeling/why.


    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nn2zIHlEkHo


    To answer your questino of is there a point where you just forget and never do this again. Accept the fact that this is an addiction- just like drugs or any other addiction. There will be withdrawals and you will ALWAYS be "in recovery." Once you start to move beyond this though, you begin healing and you begin the process of closing this chapter in your life. You just have to make sure not pick up the book again... You CAN do this! Just like this video says- focus on all the positive 'upward spiral' pieces of your life. Thanks to Notsoaveragejoe for providing.

    Good luck!
     
    LustFREE, Jun 12, 2014
    LustFREE, Jun 12, 2014
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