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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Anubis91, Feb 14, 2017.

  1. Anubis91

    Anubis91 Fapstronaut

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    God this is so weird I don't know where to start. So I'm gonna just say it. I used to be a stoner. I'm 26 years old. I smoked pot everyday, and watched porn everyday. I was a calm, philosophical, kind guy. After years of being with my stoner buddies I gave them too much air. I was very lovingly and kind. So they took advantage of me and it got worse each day. Until one day I had enough. It was a HUGE turnout point. I was just sick of it. Sick of that life, with no motivation, and always thinking of my ex (the biggest reason why I became a stoner) So, I cut contact with all of my friends. I seriously have no friends anymore. I'm fine with that though. It's a new beginning. This was now more than a week ago. I also quit masturbate/ejaculate when I stopped smoking.

    The driving force of how I'm keeping this long is because of my ex-best friend. Hate is driving me Hate and motivation to succeed. I just started to lift weights too. To get stronger. But it's getting too much. I'm going crazy. All my actions are different and I'm constantly aggressive. I think about sex 24/7. I have these crazy thoughts that I didn't know that I had. BUT! I'm no longer afraid of things. I'm 50% more social than ever. I work as a cashier. My self-confidence is getting sky high. I feel so different. But at the same time I don't know how to control it. I'm almost at 2 weeks now. And I never had this much testosterone in me. I just started to lift weights too. To get stronger. Pot actually takes it down for those who didn't know this.

    I just discovered NoFap. And I still don't know what to think about it...I just wanted a place to tell all of this. And I think this is the best place. What will happen next? I don't know. I'm sorry if this was posted at the wrong section or something.
     
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  2. change_my_life

    change_my_life Fapstronaut

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    Welcome you in a peacefull place... this is were you turn to when you feel down......this is were you find ur 'peace'
     
  3. Alan777

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    first 30days gonna be very mild of ups and downs of emotions after roughly 30-40days in ull get probably in the major flatline, when u ffeel depressed as hell and your sex drive will be gone for while, but dont worry will come back, once ur brain starts to rewire more and more, jsut remember no matter how ur gonna feel shit on some days, it will pass, just remember that, it will go away one day, and when u come out on the other side, u will be very strong and clear mind, and everything gonna feel so fantastic. for now just forget sex and this stuff it will get easier as u go, remember u need a reason why u doing this, for me its i wanna be sucesssful in life and achieve things, thats why im doing hardmode, no sex,no orgasm,not using porn. stay strong, the end gonna be glorious.
     
  4. Anubis91

    Anubis91 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you both of you. I'm just sick of my life and how I am. These weeks have been crazy. My lifestyle has changed drastically. I used to go into the woods at night with my buddies and smoke and talk about dreams that we could never achieve. And now all I do at home is doing barbell curls and getting my frustrations out. I miss smoking too. But at the same time, it's a relieve. I will stay strong. And I will fight. I'm sick of this. Thank you for welcoming me.
     
  5. Alan777

    Alan777 Fapstronaut

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    1. Find urself healthy diet, and take multivitamins, and also take zinc, since uve lost alot of it with fapping.
    2. make gym ur new hobby, ull be more strong mentally and physically, also helps u get rid of ur past faster.
    3. find a purpose in life, dont tell me u dont know what u wanna do, u need have goal, and as u do progress in this journey, ull find ur mind be able to achieve things u didnt even know it could.

    like i said just let days pass and beautiful things will come along ur way. the only thing u need to know is u need to avoid ejaculating, do hardmode at last 90days. and dont watch naked pics and sht like that. just stay clean as possible and life will suprise u, how beautiful things can get.

    stay strong!
     
  6. Anubis91

    Anubis91 Fapstronaut

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    Thank you Alan! I have a goal now. It will not be easy but I will get through it.
     
  7. ReturnToGlory

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    I'm going to recommend do not take multivitamins. Eat a healthy diet. You can develop vitamin deficiencies from taking vitamin supplements. Your body is designed for food, not artificial supplements.

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    I can tell you from my own experience that being Catholic and being involved with my church is a big part of my life. I would think it would be pretty empty to not have that in my life.

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    I lost a lot of my anger when I quit PMO, although it didn't happen immediately. It took about a month.

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    I am sure you figured out that stoners tend to be good at deluding themselves. Good thing you got away from it. But, now you have to make a new life. And you have to do it without drugging yourself, without self-medicating, and facing the harsh reality of life. You can do it and you will become a better and stronger person by going through the pain and learning that you can handle it without drugs and without PMO. No pain, no gain (to use a body building analogy).
     

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