Help

Dammit boy I responded to your other thread.

Only you can help yourself.

Meditation + hobbies + good habit building = you will eventually overcome this if you are determined enough!

 

Get a hobby. Other than masturbating to feet! That hobby will destroy you! Nothing to be ashamed of. Feet are pretty. But it will get you nowhere to stare and masturbate at them. It will prevent you from finding a relationship. In a relationship you can admire you partner's feet but also who they are as an entire person. Hobbies and meditation can build you up until that happens.



Affirm to yourself that you DO NOT HAVE TO MASTURBATE TO FEET! I used to do it too. It will lead us nowhere. It will leave empty. You have to live and learn I'm just trying to tell you what needs to be done since you asked.

 

Honestly I wouldn't feel so bad about masturbating to feet as just masturbating in general. I know guys typically consider themselves either Butt or Boob guys, these are the two main camps because typically guys are usually attracted to one more than the other but your just a foot guy! It's okay just remember a girl has a butt and a pair of boobs too! So when you get married it okay to be turned on by your wife's feet just don't let her think that's all you care about her. Honestly sex isn't about you its about the other person it's about an interaction so when you have sex make it about pleasing that other person not about you getting off. It goes for both parties too.
Be really I would focus your efforts on not masturbating in general because that's where the real battle is (as many men on here can attest!!!)
I honestly believe that over several months as you go through a reboot process and relapse several times and fight through this battle we are fighting through you will find that the less you masturbate the less your feet fetish seems out of control. You might always like feet in a special way but it won't be a freaky way any more. Does that make sense? Good luck!

 

Hey Michael. I understand your struggle and you will get out of this if you never want to feel that shame, guilt and depression again. I am 16 and I starting be free from this addiction and seeing the fruits of my labor. So, it is possible. The single greatest advice I can give to anyone starting out is to starting reading self improvement books. I highly recommend the Slight Edge these books will provide you the knowledge to get anything in your life including overcoming this addiction. If you ever need any help please message me.