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Zero urge to have sex with gf...

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Nooneknows2003, Mar 26, 2017.

  1. Nooneknows2003

    Nooneknows2003 Fapstronaut

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    In the last year or so I have no urge to have sex with my gf of over 3 years.

    How do I know if my brain is just messed up because of porn/cybersex addiction or if I'm just not sexually attracted to her anymore?
     
  2. Big_Boss

    Big_Boss Fapstronaut

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    How long is your streak? If your streak is long and you have urges, but not urges to have sex with her, maybe you aren't sexually attracted to her.
     
  3. Nooneknows2003

    Nooneknows2003 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the reply.

    Streak is very short (7 days) and also my first - only just realised I may have a problem.

    I suppose therefore it's a waiting game...
     
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  4. Big_Boss

    Big_Boss Fapstronaut

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    You need to wait more time. Urges will come.

    Stay strong!
     
  5. Kolbe

    Kolbe Fapstronaut

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    The only way to know is to give rebooting a shot. Try 90 days and see how you feel then.
     
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