Cold approach experience

This is pretty interesting. I didn't want to respond anymore but some of you lot are pretty clueless and give bad advice lmao, good lord.... As if I am going to rape someone in the middle of a busy mall? Anyway... it's highly, and I mean highly disrespectful to first give a green light like ok we can walk a little bit, get the chance to know each other (I couldn't ask for her number then and there, and what's the point in that. And she seemed busy to go somewhere) OK, like even if that is weird, I never said it wasn't weird. You just don't hint someone in the middle of everything, shaking and stuttering, like ok it was fun while it lasted let's move our ways. Trying to send me off like I am a bad kid and need to be expelled from class. I wasn't having it, we entered this damn shit mall together, and we leave together. Like mind you, I was not intimidating, threatening, nervous, weird, anything. I am not a little bitch like other guys that sweet talk their way into a womens pants, no, I am live and direct. If you can't handle it, it's on you. I make eye contact, I have a strong personality, and I just don't give a f&ck. I forgot to mention, I agreed to leaving, but only ONCE OUTSIDE, I played it off cool, even helped her pack her things and asked if she needed some help carrying.

ALSO, outside she made an excuse of walking all the other way into the city, with a FULL BAG, I was looking at her like damn you are pretty nuts. She didn't want to go to no damn city lmao, just wait til I was gone so she could go home.

http://www.returnofkings.com/58160/5-reasons-why-girls-with-mental-disorders-should-be-shunned

More, and more western women have mental disorders but in the spirit of white knight males, and females who vouch for each other it's like a government secret or something. For the guys out there... I would highly ADVISE AGAINST COLD APPROACH. I have been fooled by bro-science tales myself. Now the other day, I went to the dentist and I saw her walking again. In our first meeting she said something about practicing for long distance walks in summer for holidays or something and had these walking shoes. Kudos. I didn't even look her way. That is besides the point. With NoFap, I need to come to a certain point where I am cured from sexual addiction. Or hypersexuality. Most of the times, I don't even like women. I feel they are below my standard. And you as a male aren't supposed to, 99% of women you meet are not yours, and in the spirit of ''true love'' or whatever there is a few you actually can get along. But with porn/sex addiction you just need that fix. Some guys are either sex addicts, or virgins, and they just struggle.

If you spend long enough time with certain women they will fall in love with you anyway. College/work/social stuff whatever. Especially if you are focussed on whatever that is you are doing and come off as neutral. "Warm approaches" or whatever they are called, go for it. That is part of not objectifying right? Great. Some guys and girls are addicts, and spend their entire life with their addiction and other addicts. I don't give a f&ck how much they get laid, hell they could get laid on the moon and it don't matter. I need to be able to look in the mirror and go like: Now there is a champion, being true with yourself is the best thing ever. Everything I already got, just this addiction has to be crossed off and I am good.

 

Now I know what website you hang out on, I think I understand why you see certain things the way you do!

Reading lots of things on websites like that have let's just say PARTS of it that are so misogynist and are part of the reason I have almost zero self-confidence when it comes to men!

But perhaps I am mis-interpreting you.

 

God I WISH I had your self confidence with the opposite sex in a way though, instead of believing- partially cos of websites like that - that men think women who look like me etc. are shit. Some websites like that seem to have the attitude that all women are rubbish and cold, horrible bitches so let's fuck as many of them as we can, none of them have value and it's just a numbers game. Some of them, not necessarily this one, even DO condone rape! There is a lot of things out there today for men AND women, teaching us that the opposite sex is out to get us, looks down on us is like some rare almost unachievable butterfly and even if we GET them, they will only hurt us anyway!

Yes, there are a ton of toxic websites for women about men too, believe me!

With titles like "why men run away" and I even got an email recently saying something like "If you do this, he WILL cheat."

It's like FFS, stop making men and women sound like enemies of each other JUST to sell your freaking products and services, people!

It's almost like they are trying to divide us at times. Society, I mean. And the media. By gender, by race, by religion, by socio-economics, by ANY means and any lines they can cos they know divided we fall and united we stand so they don't want us to be united and to trust each other.

 

Aww TessLynne.. I am sure you are one fine milf... You seem flirty and fun..surely you shouldn't have any problems? Try tinder, internet dating and real life flirting. Skip karaoke bars where you are rubbed on your back..that is just sad lol.

 

That's actually a much cooler lovely & more helpful reply from you than I anticipated thank you!! I DO get guys interested but sometimes as in begging me for sex sighhhh
Sometimes LITERALLY begging lol
But apparently that means they think I am not good enough for more?????

Or maybe it doesn't??

Loving your reply pleasantly surprised

 

Lol, come on. I am not that bad. Well them begging you for sex just means you are hot. And they could be very desperate lol. Just skip the very desperate ones and get out there and find a flirty guy that seems into you but not that desperate. I personally would hit on you for sure.

What's so bad about asexual feelings? That just leaves room for platonic love...

 

Lol. You don't even know me.

Hell yeah Tess sounds mighty fine. Even like her name. Come through Tess, I would gladly talk with ya

 

Exactly... nothing Are you a grumpy kitty? Aw..here kitty, kitty. Pss, pss, don't be mad. You're a guy and your name here is SnowWhite? Interesting.

What type of lingerie does Tess wear you think? I bet something really classy and revealing Any thongs maybe?

 

Me telling you I would tap that ass =/= dating someone idiot.

"This aint no dating site" is what boring turds say that want to act witty.

As if I am going to ever meet someone over the internet. Not happening.

Now take your proxy account and stick it where the sun dont shine!

 

Yeah I KNOW it's hard for some guys to believe it but women can get social anxiety too. Not all of us are confident. Plus, as others have pointed out, it may have been nothing to do with you. Having SAID that, also if someone has a lot of negative thoughts about the opposite sex, that can kinda "leak out" & people can pick up on that too. COULD be two people who don't trust the opposite sex hanging out & those bad vibes were apparent to each other, don't hate me lol. It may not have been that & I know it's not my place to say it. It may have simply been miscommunication, misunderstanding instead & nothing more than that.

 

Lol! I doubt she'd kill you ha ha.