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Relapse and Binge...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by brownpooh, Jun 28, 2014.

  1. brownpooh

    brownpooh Fapstronaut

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    I started out strong..but lately I keep going back and binge watching... It's frustrating.. I'm not giving up but I keep feeling horrible and disgusted.. The best method for me to get my mind off of porn or and anything related was being occupied with a girl..but currently i'm out of school so I have really not associated places where I can socialize with any girls,.

    I really need some companions who can help get through this...lets go my fellow friends! help is needed..
     
  2. MoonUser

    MoonUser Fapstronaut

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    The relapse binge is tough. It really resets everything. Have you tried making a counter and tracking your daily progress? Click on mine below to make one.
     
  3. 215

    215 Fapstronaut

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    Go to a gym! I just switched gym a month ago and I became buddies with lot of ppl there.
     
  4. You can't rely on a girl brother. If the girl of your dreams comes, then great, but you can only rely on your own will power to get you through this, otherwise you're going to fall.

    You can do this if YOU really want to. You can do anything you want. You're the captain of your own soul. This whole thing is about choices. Make a decision everyday that you will not PMO and stick to it. Yes, it will get tough and the urges will come, but are you going to let YOUR OWN body dictate to you how you live your life? Like today, I woke up with urges, but my will to fight this and knowing exactly how I will feel if I was to MO is what keeps me from not doing it.

    Why would I break 6 whole days of progress, just for a few seconds of pleasure? It logically makes no sense. This is the life I want to live now, forever, and we all know that the rewards are going to be great. Decide what it is you want from this life. If it's to live PMO free, then do it, because you have power to do whatever it is you want. You have the power to achieve your greatest desires.
     
  5. Siloam Levi

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    It makes no sense to waste all those days and all that precious energy for a few moments of pleasure, but we do it anyway because that brief pleasure appears preferable to present misery. So, what is making us so miserable right now?

    Rejection, or poverty, or boredom, or what?

    Brownpooh may I ask if you have started a NoFap journal? Have you read or viewed much information on porn addiction? I want to help you, but I can only do 10% of your job. The other 90% is as follows:

    The amount of thought you put into your NoFap challenge, and as hard as it sounds you will keep thinking this over, no doubt...
    The lifestyle changes you make in order to defeat porn and masturbation addiction,
    And, the degree of recourse you have to a superior power in your life.

    This last one is not mandatory but I find it to be extremely important in my individual situation and I recommend it to all Fapstronauts. First, though, just think things over.

    You'll get this program right if you want it and are honest with yourself.
     
    Last edited: Jun 28, 2014
  6. IWillPower

    IWillPower Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry my friend, we've all been there and done it when it comes to relapsing. Just get yourself a good porn blocker, I don't think the admin would like me plugging a company that provides it. Just send me a personal message and I'll let you know...
     
  7. brownpooh

    brownpooh Fapstronaut

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    thanks for all the advice and support guys!
    Yeah I think I was just really lacking in willpower..so I guess I'll have to be mentally stronger..I do plan on going to the gym so hopefully that will have some positive effects!!
     
  8. brownpooh

    brownpooh Fapstronaut

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    okay I made a banner now!
     
  9. brownpooh

    brownpooh Fapstronaut

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    okay..so starting yesterday i relapsed again..which really frustrates me after I actually managed go by for a week...but I noticed that I didn't have the intense desires that i used to have for porn..
    I'm still really attracted to girls i see in real life, but now looking at nude pictures don't really stimulate me as it used to...this may be a good sign or bad..but I really need more will power..
    the summer is fricking hot and i get so lazy..i do workout everyday but still its really annoying me,..
    I always stop myself before I actually orgasm but i dont know..its a hard process..
     

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