Anyone Experienced Intense Urges During Reboot?

I'm a SO whose partner has PIED. Before he gave up pmo he was never one to check out women in a sexual manner at least not in front of me! But since he quit it's all he does even to the point my mother has commented on it several times. For a partner that's freaking horrible. But wanted to let you know it did happen to someone else. I don't know why or what it means.

 

This was happening to me today actually. I think it's a good thing that at least I'm actually getting aroused by actual women and it gives me a certain confidence, but I also would say make sure you stay aware of it and try to keep it under control. Try to just look at it as evidence that your reboot is working without getting out of control. Don't think of it as a bad thing though. I've found when I accept it for what it is and don't think about it too much it passes after a bit.

 

Yep. Normal. I woke up a few days ago and I could not stop fantasizing. All day it was fantasizing about this and that. Fortunately my dick is still broken from the flatline and knew it wouldn't be worth it to fap, so I didn't. The day after that I felt like what I experienced was a nightmare/dream/wasn't real. I just went back to zero urges.

 

For it happened sometimes and till now it happen occasionally, but not very regularly. It might be the result of myself abstaining from PMO. Sexual urges are normal it differs from person to person that how this sexual drive or urge will manifest. On the other hand I think your inner beast whatever maybe you call it was getting feed by porn. I think if you will continue your journey of NoFap for sometime this voraciousness issue will get resolved.

 

For me, the longer I go on NoFap I too become a drooling cartoon wolf except there is really nothing funny about it since I start doing all sorts of pervy things out in public that's in the grey zone of law. Aleast, if I fap once or twice a day I don't feel the need to go pervy sage mode.

Your so use to jacking off on porn and suddenly stop doing it real women are gonna be extremely alluring all of a sudden. The longer you don't fap the more it just builds up until you start becoming an obnoxious animal. That inner beast is not natural but reinforced from years of porn and masturbation. The difference between us and normal people are the only things we can think about is sex or anything related while other people have jobs, success, friends & family they can occupy their life with and keep them going. I don't have any of that and an unsightful appearance to boot.

Everyday I am just drowned in my own negativity and got annoying security guards on my tail for checking out girls in public for longer than normal periods!

There were many times where a situation called for a change and for about maybe a day I felt some actual peace and goodness in me but that would never last. Always end up in my old habits again. Like I mentioned, there is just not enough to keep me from easily falling apart.

 

i am having the exact same experience
31 yo and almost 30 days.

try not to judge urself too heavily.
the beast becomes the passionate lover of integrity, creativity and sovereignty once channelled in the right direction. it is ur fire and dynamic power currently showing u how it has been misused which has led you to repeatably deplete urself and the development of something ugly.
dont take the bait and act on it. just allow it to do its dance in ur head while its there until ur attention gets bored and moves on to something else.
its ok to appreciate the beauty of a women.