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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Elpho Sin, Apr 22, 2017.

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  1. Apr 22, 2017 #1
    Elpho Sin

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    Hi guys,

    So I had sex last night for the first time since starting to abstain from PM. As you can see by my counter, I have been abstaining for 10 days and the benefits have been immense so far. However, last night I encountered an issue.

    The reason I began my NoFap journey was down to difficulty getting and staying erect with my girlfriend. Also, I was taking a long time to O. However, now the situation has reversed and last night, I found myself Oing after a very short amount of time...!

    Any advice for further steps to help this issue would be much appreciated.

    Thanks,

    E
     
    Elpho Sin, Apr 22, 2017
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  2. Apr 22, 2017 #2
    J247

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    That's just kinda normal? But if you're going for a reboot, its best to halt sex and stuff with your gf for a couple months or so.
     
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  3. Apr 22, 2017 #3
    Elpho Sin

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    Well yeah, but now O feels too quick. Like we've barely started and I've Oed and she gets less enjoyment...
     
    Elpho Sin, Apr 22, 2017
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  4. Apr 22, 2017 #4
    French Nico

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    Penetration is not the only way for pleasing a girl. Take a lot of time with preliminaries, she will enjoy!
     
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  5. Apr 22, 2017 #5
    Ghost_Rider

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    no sex, no pmo for atleast 90 days and then you can resume sex,
    But keep no pmo for the rest of your life.
     
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  6. Apr 22, 2017 #6
    Mystical•Citra

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    Study the parasympathetic nervous system, make sure this system is well activated when you have sex. Be very relaxed and have no stress or worry. Slow it down
     
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  7. Apr 22, 2017 #7
    I Free I

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    Yes .
     
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  8. Apr 23, 2017 #8
    Du Bairen

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    Hello, my friend, I come from China, I used to experience a bit of your personal insights.
    Masturbation is not only great harm, and highly addictive, once the addiction is extremely hard to quit, and masturbation is not modest, modest impossible for addiction.
    You speak is Chinese kidney empty, kidney affect sexual function.
    I don't know what to say with
    you, because the gap between the two countries, I may not be able to understand.
     
    Du Bairen, Apr 23, 2017
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