It's not a REAL reboot with a girlfriend!

I agree , Sacrifices have to be made in order to fully progress & heal from no pmo in my opinion . Some choose a 90 day challenge without sex & others don't... Whatever works for you works for you .

 

Sorry. I'm married. My wife has needs too.

I personally feel, that the rebooting that needs to occur is from artificial stimuli to real. I don't want to become the guy that needs to have porn running to get an erection to have sex. Or, that only my hand makes me ejaculate.

 

Actually sex without orgasm is the absolute greatest way of transmuting your sexual energy, IF you are making love. If you can keep lust out of it and let the intimacy be an expression of love and look at your partner as a divine being, you will have transmuted your sexual energy and nofap becomes much easier.
When I practiced karezza successfully I felt so relaxed and content afterwards, and I had a boost of energy that I utilized towards meditation. The extra energy of a partner in union with your own energy will also help speed up the reboot process, as long as there is not an ejaculation.
Have your girlfriend listen to this podcast and maybe she will get onboard! It's one of the best things a couple can do for their relationship.


http://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2015...lationship-and-how-to-fix-it-marnia-robinson/

 

Well said.