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Incorrect Use of Sexual Energy

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Constantine Bold, Apr 23, 2017.

  1. Constantine Bold

    Constantine Bold Fapstronaut

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    When men abstain from ejaculation, sexual energy starts to build up.
    This sexual energy can be used for benefits.

    That energy rewards you with the mental or physical strength to help you being more productive.

    What some do is, after doing NoFap and having acquired some sexual energy, they use that sexual energy to watch more videos, more NoFap stories, more useless or unproductive things. Deep in your heart, you know that these things are not helping you in your life and because of that - you don't really feel the benefits of NoFap and that causes some to relapse.

    The goal should be to use that new sexual energy which you sustain daily by not ejaculation, to do good, fun, beneficial and productive things.

    Start writing, start exercising, start running, start reading self-help book, start studying, etc.

    Forget flatline, etc. Don't focus on these things. Start living and become better man than you were yesterday.
     
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  3. Calculas

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    .... This thread needs more reply...
     
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  4. mghyper17

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    brilient man, im agree with you.
    when i manage to hold my self i feel that i have more powers to do things.. i am starting to run these days
     
  5. Mystical•Citra

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    Well said!
     
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  6. I Free I

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    The Truth . :emoji_bow:
     
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  7. J247

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    I really don't get sexual energy. My dick just wants to do something. I'm alone on this one?
     
  8. neversaynever

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    For me the sexual energy became visible after my 100+ days relapse. I felt better after the relapse and felt vibrations along the spine (very tangible). I actually felt on my own how sexual energy could fuel other creative pursuits. But after relapsing the next 3-4 times it disappeared. I shouldn't have broken 100+ days streak either because I was in flatline and the aim is to go over it not to restart even though relapse can make you feel better (temporarily). Just my 2 cents
     
  9. Enemjay

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    That's the ticket man. I've been using my energy to get back into writing the comic book story that I'd put on hold several months ago. It feels great! I don't even feel like I need marijuana to induce creative thinking anymore - sexual energy is an amazing font of creativity.
     
  10. samruai6

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    true brother, when i was on myo a 90 day streak my sexual energy was high and to get rid of it i thought about getting a girlfriend which failed and led me to a realapse to get rid of that energy instead of being productive.
     
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  11. Enemjay

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    People are attracted to doers, leaders, movers and shakers. Harness your sexual energy to produce something and the women will come.[​IMG]
     
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  12. Very well said.
     
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  13. Constantine Bold

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    Indeed, that's true. Men are producers and a man's status and respect is determined by the amount of his productivity.

    No one disrespects an honest and hardworking man.
     
  14. go!

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    Great post and great comments, folks! Wish you all to succeed your dreams
     
  15. Tesslynne

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    Can someone please please PLEASE PLEASE find out if women benefit in a similar way too!!!
     
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  16. Woman are just the opposite-they benefit from more sex.
     
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  17. Constantine Bold

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    Unfortunately, the women do not benefit from abstaining from having sexual relations and they, by nature, cannot produce sperm.

    The sexual energy is related to semen & testosterone.

    Testosterone is produced on a daily basis, in the testicles of men.

    And since women's bodies do not produce sperm, the amount of testosterone is tenfold or even more less than of a man.

    The truth is, men were designed, by nature, to be providers - this requires the mental and physical strength and women are designed, by nature, to be caregivers or caretakers, which is why women are more emotional than men and make judgments and conclusion mostly from an emotional standpoint. The men make judgments and conclusions from logical standpoint. This is de biological difference between man and woman.

    Behind every successful man, there is a great woman.

    Woman are the supporters of men.

     
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  18. Tesslynne

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    So, why should women do NoFap then?????
     
  19. Tesslynne

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    We do???

    Funny how --- OMG! I just had a really weird thought!!!
    Society tells men to go CRAZY with sex and tells women to have it rarely.
    WHAT IF THE OTHER WAY AROUND IS THE EMPOWERING WAY FOR US :-O
    And society KNOWS this and tries to encourage us to do the OPPOSITE.

    Sorry, weird conspiracy theory that popped into my head.

    But, really? Women do???????
     
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  20. Constantine Bold

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    Women desire emotional bond with man.

    A woman feels fulfilled when their partner shows them affection and love. And men feel fullfilled when their woman shows them respect. This is show relationship works.

    I am by no means encouraging sexual promiscuity, as this has negative psychological effects on both men and women.

    I've read an article about this topic and the researchers concluded that sexually promiscuous women tend to have higher levels of depression. It is because woman want to bond with one man, by nature. Women are not designed to be sexually promiscuous.

    The research also showed that sexually promiscuous women had reduced chance of forming long-term relationships and increased chance of divorce, etc.

    This a long topic, I've only pointed out few things.

    Peace.
     

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